enchanted771 Posted September 11, 2020 Posted September 11, 2020 Totally sucks. Already cut this guy off but he contacted me. I knew something was off in his behavior. He wouldn’t take me to events and has excuses. So he’s still on my IG and low and behold he goes live. He was with a bunch of people and very friendly with this girl so I know he brought her. He tried to lie his way out of it, and I didn’t reply. Tried to say she is so and so girlfriend and she said her name in the video (no!!) then kept saying I have an attitude, blocked me and I tried texting him and he just said whatever. I am not psychic, but I KNOW I just know that girl was not who she said. He is mad because he was caught in a lie, thought he could bulls*** me. This time, when things don’t work out I am not falling for it. This was beyond scummy. He knows I see his stories, he knows I had strong feelings for him. Now he’s busted. Like a coward, he blocked me. I feel like such a fool, but I’m walking away with pride, and show him it’s his loss
ExpatInItaly Posted September 11, 2020 Posted September 11, 2020 I'm not sure if I've understood - were you dating him again?
Author enchanted771 Posted September 11, 2020 Author Posted September 11, 2020 2 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: I'm not sure if I've understood - were you dating him again? Not exactly. He knows how I feel about him (I was trying to get over him) then he contacts me, and told me he’s not seeing anyone. So basically he lied.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 11, 2020 Posted September 11, 2020 9 minutes ago, enchanted771 said: Not exactly. He knows how I feel about him (I was trying to get over him) then he contacts me, and told me he’s not seeing anyone. So basically he lied. It sucks, but keep in mind that if you two aren't together, he is indeed free to see whomever he wants and he doesn't owe you an explanation. I'm not quite sure that he played you, as such. It's best not to keep in touch with guys like this.
Author enchanted771 Posted September 11, 2020 Author Posted September 11, 2020 1 minute ago, ExpatInItaly said: It sucks, but keep in mind that if you two aren't together, he is indeed free to see whomever he wants and he doesn't owe you an explanation. I'm not quite sure that he played you, as such. It's best not to keep in touch with guys like this. I get what your saying, but he lied when I asked him not too long ago, and he lied about other stuff. I was putting the pieces of the puzzle together. He wanted me around still to use so he lied.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 11, 2020 Posted September 11, 2020 3 minutes ago, enchanted771 said: I get what your saying, but he lied when I asked him not too long ago, and he lied about other stuff. I was putting the pieces of the puzzle together. He wanted me around still to use so he lied. This is where you need to take some control. If you know someone is lying to you, stop trying to make something happen. If someone isn't committing when you want more, don't stick around. He can't keep you around without your consent. In any event, you know now for sure nothing is going to happen with him, so it will be easier to let him go. 2
Author enchanted771 Posted September 11, 2020 Author Posted September 11, 2020 3 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: This is where you need to take some control. If you know someone is lying to you, stop trying to make something happen. If someone isn't committing when you want more, don't stick around. He can't keep you around without your consent. In any event, you know now for sure nothing is going to happen with him, so it will be easier to let him go. Yes...I thought it would be better to have him as a friend than not at all, but I’m miserable
smackie9 Posted September 11, 2020 Posted September 11, 2020 Lesson learned? Feelings always get the best of us don't they.....
Author enchanted771 Posted September 11, 2020 Author Posted September 11, 2020 40 minutes ago, smackie9 said: Lesson learned? Feelings always get the best of us don't they..... Yes and it sucks
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