balletomane Posted September 9, 2020 Posted September 9, 2020 OP, how do you know that this man sent people to catfish you? Did he/they tell you that, or did you decide by yourself that this must be what was happening? I ask because your story keeps changing dramatically - in your first post you make it sound as though a colleague you were uninterested in was harassing you, and in your last post you say he was good to you and you were cruel to him. This makes it sound as if your perception of events changes with your mood, and it may not be aligned with reality. I'm getting the impression that your obsession with this man is distorting both your perception and your behaviour, and that the sudden urge to send him a card or gift is a way of keeping the obsession going. It would be much healthier for you to block him and delete all the contact details you have for him. 1 1
JTSW Posted September 10, 2020 Posted September 10, 2020 On 9/8/2020 at 7:52 PM, Datingdisabled said: Yes, he did mess my head up which is why I am here sorting it out. So what, it's not like I'm in denial and trying to change the outcome. My goal is to process this and move on. Many told you yo block him if you don't want to be harassed. The fact that you refuse to block him tells me you want his attention. 1
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