jspice Posted September 6, 2020 Posted September 6, 2020 Well now you know so move on. You have a crush on her but you don’t say she gave you any indication she liked you. It’s weird to ask a friend to kiss you with no clue if they like you or have flirted with you. Next time instead of putting her on the slot like that tell the woman you like her and ask how she feels. Women, especially young women can be people pleasers and that gets them into situations like this.
CaliforniaGirl Posted September 6, 2020 Posted September 6, 2020 17 hours ago, Bonestorm said: But keep in mind she did say multiple times that she was fine with what happened. So that makes me think maybe she was ok with it? Dude, don't don't touch this. Please. She's saying no now. Follow the no. Anything else is probably just going to be a mess.
Velvet teddy Posted September 6, 2020 Posted September 6, 2020 (edited) On 9/5/2020 at 12:18 PM, Bonestorm said: I (20M) have a crush on my female friend (18F), so I asked her once if I could kiss her. She said sure, she moved up to me and we kissed (she kissed back) for 30 secs or so, and she said it was good immediately after. So I did not pressure her, I asked only once and she gave consent to it. If she said no then I would've immediately backed off and never tried again. I texted her about it after, asking her if she was okay with what happened. When I asked her "Are you okay with what happened?" She said "It's fine yeah". She then said she felt like "didn't have much of a choice" because she struggles to say no to people. She then said "I am fine with it but I didn't have much of a choice". What on earth does this even mean? How can she say she felt like she had no choice, but also be "Fine with it" at the same time? That's so contradictory. What do people think she means with these messages? Maybe she is saying that she felt like she had no choice, but was okay with kissing me regardless? I don't want to ask her more as I don't want to irritate her. Her saying she felt like she had no choice, it's not the kind of response you want after a first time kiss. Perhaps she regrets it ( just went with it in the moment) or has the ick now. Either way, i dont think you should instigate anything again. Fyi her saying she is fine with it is a way to not be rude about it. But really and truly, you should leave this well alone now. Edited September 6, 2020 by Velvet teddy
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