owen2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 in a earlier post last week i explained that i had just split up with my girlfreind a week ago well were in school together and she is dead certain that will get back together and i know that we will not because she had her chance with me and ****ed it up so why should she have me again. well anyway ive been speaking to this girl ruth in our school and she knows that i like her and stuff but we have both said we are gonna take our time and see where it goes between us 2 well anyway i was in the common room today and i was with ruth and all her mates n stuff and my ex was on the other side of the room with her m8s and then she suddely started crying n stuff and ran out saying im flirting with ruth n stuff? shes trying to dictate who i can speak to and who i can flirt with and stuff and were not even together.. we were together for 17 monthes but im over her because i knew it was coming and all i wanna do is move on and stuff but shes getting in the way whats the best way of the giving her the message that me and her will not be getting back together and what should i do with ruth i think she likes me and i really like her but kays getting in the way does anyone know if this is normal for a girl to be soo selfish and low to do it?? i need a way of giving my ex the message we are history
Art_Critic Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 If it really is true that you feel you will never get back together then you have a couple of ways you can deal with it.. You could just be cold, distant and never speak to her and let time fix the problem.. You were with her 17 months so it might take a few months. Or you could sit her down and tell her in no uncertain terms that it is over and she needs to get over it.. I do think you need to show her compassion though.. 17 months..Give her some time and don't be a jerk about it unless she crosses some of your boundary lines.
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