Girls and women all around the world fake having boyfriends and fake kiss in public

[user114]

2 hours ago, introverted1 said:

Watch "Jane the Virgin" to see how it's done.

Thanks

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

2 minutes ago, user114 said:

I'm not autistic. I have no mental disorders.

Autism is not a mental disorder.

[user114]

7 minutes ago, CautiouslyOptimistic said:

Autism is not a mental disorder.

It is.

It is classified as a disorder.

Edited August 29, 2020 by user114

[user114]

1 minute ago, CautiouslyOptimistic said:

Autism is not a mental disorder.

Please stay on topic.

[user114]

9 hours ago, CaliforniaGirl said:

Just...who would even think about it to this extent?

The girls and women who I was romantically involved with all could derive this information from looking at that picture.

[user114]

This is NOT a "conspiracy", because it is NOT "unlawful" or "harmful". It is also not done by a "group" or people, it is done individually. The definition of "conspiracy" is: a secret plan by a group to do something unlawful or harmful.

Every person who said this is a conspiracy clearly does not know this definition. Not sure if CaliforniaGirl fits into this group because she said it "sounded" like conspiracy.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

OK, well conspiracy or not, I don't believe you or that this is a "thing." Of course photoshopping is a thing but being able to tell who is a virgin or not?  Please.  

[user114]

18 hours ago, lurker74 said:

People, stop feeding the troll. Yes, it's fun but trolls get indigestion. 

I am not a troll. You are much worse than a troll, if you do not do your best to understand what is true. You don't have to believe me, but if you simply dismiss what I say and never think about it ever again, you may get screwed over. Many missed romantic opportunities.

Do not comment on this thread again. I can already tell you have nothing good to say.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

1 minute ago, user114 said:

if you simply dismiss what I say and never think about it ever again, you may get screwed over. Many missed romantic opportunities.

 

I don't understand.  How?  

[user114]

2 minutes ago, CautiouslyOptimistic said:

OK, well conspiracy or not, I don't believe you or that this is a "thing." Of course photoshopping is a thing but being able to tell who is a virgin or not?  Please.  

I did not say "being able to tell who is a virgin or not" is a thing.

I am saying pretending to have a boyfriend until you find a real boyfriend/husband is a thing.

It is like in the practice of Islam, females cover their whole body in black and only reveal their eyes.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

Just now, user114 said:

I did not say "being able to tell who is a virgin or not" is a thing.

I am saying pretending to have a boyfriend until you find a real boyfriend/husband is a thing.

It is like in the practice of Islam, females cover their whole body in black and only reveal their eyes.

Oh.  OK.  Yeah, I don't think this is a thing.  Why would they do that?

[user114]

1 minute ago, CautiouslyOptimistic said:

I don't understand.  How?  

You are not a stupid person. I do not know why I have to explain this to you.

If a girl/woman is pretending to be in a relationship when she is clearly not, and you think she is married and taken forever, wouldn't that be a bad thing if you dismiss when the truth is she is actually available?

[user114]

Just now, CautiouslyOptimistic said:

Oh.  OK.  Yeah, I don't think this is a thing.  Why would they do that?

...I explained it in the first post of this thread....

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

2 minutes ago, user114 said:

...I explained it in the first post of this thread....

Yeah, but none of that makes sense if a woman actually is looking for a relationship/partner/marriage.  

I also dismissed everything you said when you said "girls don't touch" and even pics of girls together (i.e. with an arm around each other) are photoshopped.  That is false.

[ExpatInItaly]

Considering this is an advice forum, what advice are you seeking on this issue, OP?

[d0nnivain]

35 minutes ago, user114 said:

If a girl/woman is pretending to be in a relationship when she is clearly not, and you think she is married and taken forever, wouldn't that be a bad thing if you dismiss when the truth is she is actually available?

Not really.  If a woman goes through all the trouble to fake being in a relationship including pretending to have BF or photoshopping pictures, don't you think that is her screaming that she wants to be left alone?  In that sense, it would be a bad thing for you to pursue her when she wants to be left alone.  Just because you may want her she gets to chose not to be bothered.  

[Wiseman2]

49 minutes ago, user114 said:

If a girl/woman is pretending to be in a relationship when she is clearly not, and you think she is married and taken forever, wouldn't that be a bad thing if you dismiss when the truth is she is actually available?

Which one of these is taken?

[CaliforniaGirl]

1 hour ago, user114 said:

There is no information on the internet about this. It is almost a universal thing. I want at least one person to admit that they know this online. This is an international thing, I travel a lot.

This...literally makes no sense.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

33 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

Which one of these is taken?

You crack me up!

[gamon]

1 hour ago, user114 said:

If a girl/woman is pretending to be in a relationship when she is clearly not, and you think she is married and taken forever, wouldn't that be a bad thing if you dismiss when the truth is she is actually available?

Nobody wants to date a girl who photoshops pictures to make it seem like she has a boyfriend when she does not. Clearly such a person is very messed up in their head.

[CaliforniaGirl]

1 hour ago, user114 said:

This is NOT a "conspiracy", because it is NOT "unlawful" or "harmful". It is also not done by a "group" or people, it is done individually. The definition of "conspiracy" is: a secret plan by a group to do something unlawful or harmful.

Every person who said this is a conspiracy clearly does not know this definition. Not sure if CaliforniaGirl fits into this group because she said it "sounded" like conspiracy.

Your assertion is that this is "universal" and that somehow, we just won't admit it. a conspiracy theory usually involves sinister or untoward motives but it doesn't have to be unlawful. (????) It just has to involve a group of people, secrecy, and a plot. The plot here is that women "all over the world" are somehow in on this secret Photoshop knowledge and that they're attempting to trick others. You claim you want us to "admit" this.

Yes. It reads exactly like a conspiracy theory. It's off the wall, assumes trickery and also that somehow we all know about it....we just won't ADMIT it...

So FTR: 1. We don't know about it, probably because if anybody at all does this, it's a pretty small proportion of people; and 2. if you want to find someone who will "admit" this you're going to be frustrated.. There you have it.

[CaliforniaGirl]

1 hour ago, ExpatInItaly said:

Considering this is an advice forum, what advice are you seeking on this issue, OP?

Yes. I've asked several times: why does the OP want to know? His only answer is that he wants us to "admit" this is happening. Still makes zero sense as as a question on a relationships forum.

It also makes no sense that he wants "just one person" to admit to this weirdness, when he says he has all these sexual partners who sat down to give him a lengthy explanation of how they do this. Unless these sexual partners were blow up dolls or animals, that IS people "admitting" to this. Problem solved. There ya go, OP! Your questions, answered. If you need more details about this "universal" secret, you can always contact one of your sexual partners. HTH.

 

[CaliforniaGirl]

1 hour ago, user114 said:

You are not a stupid person. I do not know why I have to explain this to you.

If a girl/woman is pretending to be in a relationship when she is clearly not, and you think she is married and taken forever, wouldn't that be a bad thing if you dismiss when the truth is she is actually available?

A bad thing for whom? Not for her. If she's going to this extent to make you leave her alone then she's one step away from filing for a restraining order. Anyone would have to literally be at the desperation stage in order to even conceive of such a weird thing, much less do it.

[Snow_Queen]

Never known anyone to photoshop a man in their photos but some women will say they’re taken because they just want to be left alone. Some women even wear rings on their left hand to deter being hit on.

Even if she is honest about being single, there are men out there who won’t except this. It leads to being bothered, which leads to being harassed in some cases, which can lead to a restraining order. 

For example, a coworker from a previous job turned a guy down who was dying to go out with her. Well, he wouldn’t take no for answer. He broke into our employee files and took her cell number. It led to a serious case of harassment that nearly resulted in a restraining order. Some women just want to be left alone. I highly suggest doing so and not even bother calling them out on it.

[CaliforniaGirl]

2 hours ago, user114 said:

I am not a troll. You are much worse than a troll, if you do not do your best to understand what is true. You don't have to believe me, but if you simply dismiss what I say and never think about it ever again, you may get screwed over. Many missed romantic opportunities.

Do not comment on this thread again. I can already tell you have nothing good to say.

 Get screwed over how? By not being able to pursue someone who is so anxious to have you leave her alone, she's down to stealing other people's photos and digitally creating a fake relationship?

How is that you getting screwed over? Because otherwise, this individual going to the these lengths to get rid of you might be game for you pursuing her?

That seems unlikely.

Weirdness factor aside, if someone is this anxious for you to leave her alone...then leave her alone. It's actually not complicated. 

 

Edited August 29, 2020 by CaliforniaGirl