ExpatInItaly Posted August 29, 2020 Posted August 29, 2020 Online counselling could be a great thing, dorian. It sound to me like much of this is down to a lack of confidence so perhaps you can concentrate on that and learn some skills to enhance your self-esteem. You'll be amazed at what happens when you don't worry so much about making mistakes. 1
Caauug Posted August 29, 2020 Posted August 29, 2020 1 hour ago, doriansmelts1 said: ...helped me understand a little and gave a glimpse into what a woman might be thinking. Hummm….. Good Luck with that!!! Do you live around the GTA? On the serious side, yes lots of great points. I find leave yourself open, give her time and opportunities to show you she wants you to "Escalate" Example: You two are holding hands walking in a quiet area talking, turn so your back is to a tree/building and she is facing you, take her other hand also and look into her eyes without talking. You can't escape as she is blocking your path, it's her move, if she moves closer or moves out of the way to let you escape tells you what direction she wants to go. If she is creeped out in anyway stop and go to no contact, pick another girl next time. Everything we do has a risk factor and/or fail rate. Push too hard, move to slow, say the wrong thing, miss saying the right thing, being to fat, not being buff enough, being too short, being the wrong colour, following the wrong religion or just the wrong girl at this time. It's not going to work out every time.... Be very careful..... The wrong impressions or the wrong people can send the whole thing south very quickly. Google: "Kenan Basic" and read what happened to him when he helped a young girl out fixing her car... And then the "MeToo's" jumping in after the first one. Be very careful...
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