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I cheated years ago and cant get over it.


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5 hours ago, DKT3 said:

Am always amazed at how many people believe being honest about who you are is the problem.  No no its who you are that is the problem.  

People like OP usually continue to repeat patterns,  i give it a few years and she will be involved with someone else or maybe the same person again. 

Confessing is never the problem or what destroys relationships it what your Confessing that does.  And it will damage the relationship confession or not

LOL  -   that angle merely underscores your selfish perspective.   It is that selfishness that puts one in the throes of an affair to begin with.

 

"People like (the selfish) continue to repeat patterns"  (and it shows in the impulse that is to try to solve selfishness with more selfishness).

 

Stop being selfish and show a first bit of regard for the person who will be wounded by the news.

 

 

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