Watercolors Posted August 21, 2020 Posted August 21, 2020 (edited) 2 hours ago, Fair said: @lurker74 yes, I regret the note. If anything, he'll lie about what it said and to use it as a tool put in his arsenal. But maybe if he knows I'm finally getting fed up and am prepared to raise a stink he'll back off. I fully intend to keep going to the ball diamonds for walks. I'm not going to have my freedom restricted by some crazy bastard in a truck. We'll see what his reaction is, but all in all I see him as a coward who'll back down from the threat of a fight. @shclumpy - I feel sorry for the new girlfriend. There's the next one who'll have to deal with this. She's not the problem. He is. Keep your cellphone out during your walk in case you need to film him stalking you. That can be used as evidence in court, should it escalate to that. I agree with you that you have a legal right to walk that baseball diamond in that neighborhood where his house is unfortunately located, in your small town. You shouldn't have to compromise your life just because that twat lives there. Edited August 21, 2020 by Watercolors 1
Timshel Posted August 22, 2020 Posted August 22, 2020 22 hours ago, Fair said: I broke up with my ex going onto three years ago. We live in the same very small town and it looks like he's finally moved on and got a new girlfriend. Problem is, he's still got a bee in his bonnet where I'm concerned, and as someone who has been getting on with her own life for the past three years, I can't figure it out. Fair, between the neighbor staking your house out in the bushes when you noticed he has a gf and the ex stalking you when he has a gf, my first thought is what a strange town you live in. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted August 22, 2020 Posted August 22, 2020 9 hours ago, Timshel said: Fair, between the neighbor staking your house out in the bushes when you noticed he has a gf and the ex stalking you when he has a gf, my first thought is what a strange town you live in. I was thinking the same thing. What's with the men who live there? 1
Author Fair Posted August 22, 2020 Author Posted August 22, 2020 I get it now. When I went no contact for three years he suffered a narcissistic injury. That's what he's still smarting from. 1
Author Fair Posted August 22, 2020 Author Posted August 22, 2020 (edited) 15 hours ago, Timshel said: Fair, between the neighbor staking your house out in the bushes when you noticed he has a gf and the ex stalking you when he has a gf, my first thought is what a strange town you live in. As if it's SO unlikely that people are crazy. Look at the world you live in. Look at your own town. Edited August 22, 2020 by Fair
ExpatInItaly Posted August 22, 2020 Posted August 22, 2020 Have you had any response from him since you left the note, Fair? When was the last time he showed up at your workplace? Your co-workers can likely vouch for you should you choose to report him.
Author Fair Posted August 22, 2020 Author Posted August 22, 2020 I think this video explains everything. I thought it might be of use to some of you.
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