jackbauer83 Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 I've been going out with this girl for 2 years now, and she's insanely hot, so like all other guys I don't need much to get me going besides taking a quick glance at her. Sadly to say, she's not the same way with me. It's not that she doesn't think I'm attractive, I know she does because she tells me all the time. Once the sex starts, it's great... she loves it and gets off almost 100% of the time. I'm not happy with that though. Initiating sex with her is always really awkward and most of the time ends up in an "Okay just put it in" sex session. I know it's my fault... but I just don't know what to do. I mean kissing her neck works... but damn does that get old. Alot of times we'll just be laying down watching TV together, and I'll desperately want to make love to her but don't know how to start it. Leaning over and kissing her neck in that kind of situation seems kind of dumb to me. If you haven't notice, the neck method is pretty much the only thing in my arsenal. I need advice badly. So guys, if you have some good moves that you know work, please, let me know! And ladies, what have your partners done in the past that really gets you going? Our sex life would be so much better if I was good at initiating sex with her... HELP!!!!! -Tommy
sundrop Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 Hi, When m and my boyfriend who lay on the couch, me in front and him behind me, he would slowly start rubbing my arm, and then my stomach, tell me I smelled good etc... and I would have to roll over and kiss him and it was on from there.... Sometimes he would run a bath for me and hop in it with me. Or come up behind me in the kitchen and start rubbing on me again and then we would be on the floor. Any soft sensual touching was always a turn on for me. I also though it was sexy, when he started his on my shoulders and back... But this is just my personal experiance.
Topper Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Gee have you thought about talking to her? Seduction should start from before you say hello. Get her some flowers make a silly card for her like you use to make your mom when you were kids. When you are laying down there watching TV tell her how wonderful she looks. How sexy she is in that pair of jeans or whatever she is wearing. turn her head toward you and kiss her like you mean it. Tease her some. Make her laugh. Play a game like each write down what the other wants sexualy then put it in a hat each of you get to pick one thing from the hat. Now the real trick is to find away to get her to seduce you.
Kitty2020 Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 it all debends on the kinda girl she is: is she the slow type? then make your moves slow then maybe speed up to your needs is she quick, and likes when you take control type? then show your great ninja tecnques. show her your awsome ablity to manipulate her. Pin her up against the wall, tie her arms up over her head and kiss her from her head to her toes. does she take control? if so before she comes home that night chain yourself to the bed and let her do all the hard work. (some girls like to experiment) If she's shy? get a rose (any color; *maybe her favorite color) and slowly rub it down her ear, to her neck, ( it works better with a button up shirt) through her shirt. Tickle her pink while your doing this. Make her want you, and not the other way around. If she likes to play hard to get? learn some nice lines like for example: she says " try not to sound like you want me." you reply "Why I'm man enough to admit what i want" like you said your an old dog how needs new tricks. Find out what kinda girl she is and i could most likely tell you what she wants. Ask her like the other guy told you to. sometime good relationships get even better by doing so. Tell me some stuff your girl likes, what she doesn't. Here's a little tip that i find in most girls is that they would like their sex life to be like the movies. Take note on what moves she likes. You seem to be watching enough tv to know that. Some girls like it if you react what she saw, and some if you change it just enough so it's not copywriting. Just try it, and if she's none of those types, like i said just tell me what she likes and doesn't. and i'll see if i can spice up you love life rule of the world Kitty meoowww
lost_in_chgo Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 Cuff her and take her into interrogation room 3. Hey, when is the new season starting?
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