Author the tank Posted August 12, 2020 Author Posted August 12, 2020 I am bit confused now of what I should do ahah
Author the tank Posted August 12, 2020 Author Posted August 12, 2020 I am thinking to rejet the meeting now
Wiseman2 Posted August 12, 2020 Posted August 12, 2020 31 minutes ago, the tank said: Not on her text. but at my place she told me after the spark thing, that we could date another few time to see if the spark come. She's leading you on so she has someone to entertain her. 1
d0nnivain Posted August 12, 2020 Posted August 12, 2020 11 minutes ago, the tank said: I am thinking to rejet the meeting now You already made this plan to go hiking. Plans are set. Of course you are free to cancel but that is rude. I know people are rude these days but that is no excuse. Be the better person. Since you have the plan, go hiking but understand it is NOT a date & she doesn't have a meaningful romantic interest in you other then basking in your adoration which feeds her ego. Go but don't treat her differently then you would a male buddy who came along with you for companionship / conversation. Don't flirt or treat her 4
Giovane Posted August 12, 2020 Posted August 12, 2020 41 minutes ago, Mystery4u said: As for the picnic at the top of the hike, that's not something I would do with someone who told me they 'see no future with me'... Too much effort for someone who does not deserve it. Not if it's something that he would do without her anyway. If he enjoys hiking, let him hike, and if she wants to come along, let her come along, and if she doesn't, no loss at all.
Author the tank Posted August 12, 2020 Author Posted August 12, 2020 12 minutes ago, d0nnivain said: You already made this plan to go hiking. Plans are set. Of course you are free to cancel but that is rude. I know people are rude these days but that is no excuse. Be the better person. Since you have the plan, go hiking but understand it is NOT a date & she doesn't have a meaningful romantic interest in you other then basking in your adoration which feeds her ego. Go but don't treat her differently then you would a male buddy who came along with you for companionship / conversation. Don't flirt or treat her I agree that it is rude and I cant since we have a friend in commun. But I am a bit letdown because I didnt saw it like this !
d0nnivain Posted August 12, 2020 Posted August 12, 2020 I am sorry you are disappointed but better that you know going in then find out on the hike. Enjoy the hike itself. You picked it as an activity you enjoy so relish that part of it. She's just a tag along.
smackie9 Posted August 12, 2020 Posted August 12, 2020 (edited) Maybe that's what she needs for attraction....someone who is aloof, and isn't making any real effort to see her. You know just play it kool. So don't do a "picnic" or anything romantic. Edited August 12, 2020 by smackie9
Author the tank Posted August 12, 2020 Author Posted August 12, 2020 5 minutes ago, smackie9 said: Maybe that's what she needs for attraction....someone who is aloof, and isn't making any real effort to see her. You know just play it kool. So don't do a "picnic" or anything romantic. i would not bring picnic. i would just text her. will be at your place sunday . I dont invest time and energy anymore with her.
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