I hate her.. Help!

[Liz00003]

SHES a cow! I truley believe I have never felt this passionate about hating someone in my life.

Right let's start from the top.

This girl, let's call her Rhianne.

We have been best friends for about 10 years. I was always there for her, as she was for me and we shared absolutly everything together..

Recently, about 3 monthes ago, she got a boyfriend. Yeah he's nice and everything and at the beginning everything was going well between me and her and all her mates.

After a while, she started to get a bit slack with her mates.

She never rang anyone, always went on about him (I mean ALWAYS). Even after she knew how much it pi$$sed us all off she didn't stop. ''Bob this, Bob that..'' SO frusttrating!

Anyways, she was starting to do everything with him, she'd cancel dates with friends to spend time with him and then, to this day, when she gets home from school she goes over his until late.

The other day she said somewhere ''I realised that now I have Bob I don't need my friends as much anymore. I think it's good we're all not spending time with eachother maybe one day we can catch up.''

Whatever,

Anyways what really annoyed me is when I was away from my house for a night, and because I totally trusted her she had her own key. Anyways she took Bob inot my house without asking me and did *stuff* with him on my farking mum's bed! Then she goes and tells my friend about it and tells her not to tell me. Obviously my friend tells me cause she thought Ii have the right to know, which I blatantly did. I had a go at Rhianne for it and the only thing she said was '''Sorry.'' And that was over the farking internet! She never said anything else about it. And then Ii hear she just made that up to cif she could trust my friend or not, but she never told me she was making it up so wtf?

I hate her.

Anyways today I said to her ''You dunno what you're doing you're loosing all your mates over a boy''..

And she was like ''I don't give a sh*t if you or Tina hate me I'm better off without any of you.''

Bearing in mind me and Tina had been her best friends for basically 10years!

 

Ii truely hate her.

What can I do to keep my mind off it? It's tearing me up! I just wanna rip her apart and make her life a living hell !!! She's so STUPID!

cow!

Grr.

Thanks, from

*Angryyyyyyy!*

[glittergurl]

Hmm. Sounds a bit extreme here. I was 15 when my best friend started dating, I was still single, and I noticed a radical change in our friendship. In fact, the friendship died within months because she spent all her time with her boyfriend; but I backed off and never blamed her for that. I never threw any bad feelings into this, as I realized that's part of growing up and that I had no right to impose myself if she didn't feel like hanging out anymore. It's a pretty natural thing; I suppose you're teenagers, right? I simply met other friends. Friendships change, a lot. People come and go, and you quickly learn that that's how it is. No need to make it a drama.

 

Of course, the part about her lying or whatever about her making out with him on your mom's bed was very childish. But anyway, try to forget that part and let her be childish if she feels like it. Let her be stupid in someone else's house. You don't have to put up with anybody's mediocrity. But seriously, if she's neglecting your friendship, just move on. Growing hate against her is such a waste, and will only create very complicated situations that I'm sure you don't want to find yourself into.

 

I only realized how my best friend felt back then when I myself met my boyfriend. I can guarantee you, when it's love, the rest of the world doesn't exist anymore, and it's easy to neglect your friends for at least a short period of time. Keep your head cool; it happens every day.