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Is she letting me know she's interested in a low-key way?


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Starting a parallel topic because Veronica has the shoe on the other foot.

Context: a neighbor I think I recognize. If she's who I think she is, her husband, a nice guy, coached my kids in soccer 20 years ago. If she and I said 100 words to each other back then, it was about our kids and the soccer team.

I walk through the neighborhood for exercise just about every morning. My time varies by as much as 90 minutes depending on weather and what else I'm doing. Saw her walking in the opposite direction yesterday. She's very hot and I spotted her nice legs in shorts at distance (good eyesight, nospam). First time I saw her walking but she is sometimes working in her yard. Have not seen husband.

She: [waves]
Me: Good morning (what I say to everyone I pass while walking)
She: You do that a lot (assumed by me to be a reference to to having been seen walking)
Me: Yup (and both continue walking in opposite directions)

I thought nothing of it. She's a friendly person and I remember her as being married.

But the situation is very similar to Veronica's thread about approaching her neighbor. WTF? Amiright that it's just a friendly person? What is the chance she's 'showing interest in a low-key way'?

Opinions aside, I will watch out for her 'showing up' again. She has a easy tactic if she's interested. I walk back and forth past her house because my route is straight and I do a 180 turn to head home. She could certainly 'nonchalantly' start her own walk and time it so I catch up with her. LOL because I'm really not expecting it. But I do have to be prepared to respond appropriately ... like asking if she cares for a walking companion.

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LOL .... a little www detective work/cyberstalking.

According to online phonebook, husband, 62, lives at a different address 2 miles away.
She, 55, has sons, 27 and 25, living with her at the previous (?) marital home.
There is also a 50 y/o male (live in bf?) with a different last name listed as living at the same address.

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If you see her again, there is no harm is asking if she'd like a walking buddy.  Even if it turns out she's not available, you potentially make a friend.

(Who is veronica?)

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Thanks, introverted (nospam chuckles)

Veronica73 has the currently active thread ''How to let him know I'm interested in a very low-key way '' about HER neighbor.

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Maybe Veronica is your neighbor! :D

(Haven't seen/read V's thread so no clue if the details fit.)

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7 minutes ago, introverted1 said:

Maybe Veronica is your neighbor! :D

(Haven't seen/read V's thread so no clue if the details fit.)

Lol! I don’t live in New York, so it’s not me :)

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You also have a great opening line. . . ask if she still follows kids' soccer. 

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