ladybug2021 Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 (edited) This guy wanted easy sex on the first date. He didn't get it. Then he wanted to sell you a house and make a commission from you. He didn't get it. So he was basically rejected twice (or that's how he feels). Now the house is out of the equation and he knows he won't get easy sex from you, he stopped contacting you. Yes it is rude not responding anything, but that is just a confirmation of how he is. You are a nice person for letting him know, and you deserve a nice man. This guy was only interested in what he can get from you, nothing else. There was no genuine interest in getting to know you, dating you, or spending quality time with you. So, time to block, delete, and move on. You dodged a bullet, twice. Edited August 7, 2020 by ladybug2021 1
stillafool Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 Actually your message didn't require a response. You no longer need a realtor.
Author MissPinkEyes Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 (edited) 11 minutes ago, stillafool said: Actually your message didn't require a response. You no longer need a realtor. The message about the house doesn't require a reply, but any professional realtor would reply saying at least thank you. Real estate is all about contacts and you never know if a client who is not a client anymore can refer someone or a house to him in the future. And what about my previous question about meeting again like we met last weekend? That was an actual question, not an informative message. Edited August 7, 2020 by MissPinkEyes 1
poppyfields Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 (edited) 37 minutes ago, MissPinkEyes said: The message about the house doesn't require a reply, but any professional realtor would reply saying at least thank you. Real estate is all about contacts and you never know if a client who is not a client anymore can refer someone or a house to him in the future. Absolutely! I was just about to say the same thing. This bozo has got poor game all around - both on how to pull women or as a realtor. Are you sure he's even a realtor? I'm shocked at how he handled this, the unprofessionalism and sheer incompetence. Good riddance. Edited August 7, 2020 by poppyfields
Vitaminka Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 (edited) 56 minutes ago, stillafool said: Actually your message didn't require a response. You no longer need a realtor. Maybe not, what about the manners? He could've said "Hey, enjoy your new house", "I was glad to help you", etc....After all, you never know, she might recommend him to her friends or relatives. Any professional would have done so. I bought a car two month ago and a sales guy sent me a nice email saying that it was a pleasure helping me. Did he have to do that? Not at all. But it made me feel nice, like he cares about me more than just a dollar sign. I know he really doesn't care about me at all but still. How long does it take to shoot someone a thank you for your business email? lol Edited August 7, 2020 by Vitaminka more stuff to write 1
Author MissPinkEyes Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 19 minutes ago, Vitaminka said: Maybe not, what about the manners? He could've said "Hey, enjoy your new house", "I was glad to help you", etc....After all, you never know, she might recommend him to her friends or relatives. Any professional would have done so. I bought a car two month ago and a sales guy sent me a nice email saying that it was a pleasure helping me. Did he have to do that? Not at all. But it made me feel nice, like he cares about me more than just a dollar sign. I know he really doesn't care about me at all but still. How long does it take to shoot someone a thank you for your business email? lol Yes exactly. I feel that guy is so self-centered and sees people only on how he can use them and get something from them, that when he doesn't get anything, he just doesn't give a s*** anymore. Not the way to meet women or the way to do business. At least for me. Moving on.
princessaurora Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 On 8/5/2020 at 11:19 AM, smackie9 said: Hey you are right. If he didn't act like a creepo, he could have gotten some. Women just want to be treated with respect, and with thoughtfulness, not a piece of meat. Exactly, a guy isn't a jerk because he displays interest in having sex on the first date, but when he keeps pressing for that when you're clearly not down for it, , then he starts looking like an a-hole. I dated a guy once in early college who gave me two choices when he came to pick me up for our first date. Grab a quick bite and then go dancing or make dinner at his apt. He was an extremely attractive junior and in a frat, so I knew what I was signing up for when I chose his apt. It's what I wanted though, and he was a complete gentleman, asking me several times if I was sure as things started to escalate. We had a lovely dinner and talk before he took me upstairs and banged me senseless. On top of that, we ended up in a relationship for 6 months. So there are definitely some guys who can sleep with you right away and still be open to more and there are girls who are clearly looking for ONS just as much as a guy is, and there's nothing wrong with that, as long as both parties are on the same page. However, with this guy, that is not the case and the way he reacted after he didn't get what he wanted shows that. Good luck with your upcoming date, MissPinkEyes. Hopefully this guy will have a lot more class.
Author MissPinkEyes Posted August 7, 2020 Author Posted August 7, 2020 (edited) 46 minutes ago, princessaurora said: Exactly, a guy isn't a jerk because he displays interest in having sex on the first date, but when he keeps pressing for that when you're clearly not down for it, , then he starts looking like an a-hole. I dated a guy once in early college who gave me two choices when he came to pick me up for our first date. Grab a quick bite and then go dancing or make dinner at his apt. He was an extremely attractive junior and in a frat, so I knew what I was signing up for when I chose his apt. It's what I wanted though, and he was a complete gentleman, asking me several times if I was sure as things started to escalate. We had a lovely dinner and talk before he took me upstairs and banged me senseless. On top of that, we ended up in a relationship for 6 months. So there are definitely some guys who can sleep with you right away and still be open to more and there are girls who are clearly looking for ONS just as much as a guy is, and there's nothing wrong with that, as long as both parties are on the same page. However, with this guy, that is not the case and the way he reacted after he didn't get what he wanted shows that. Good luck with your upcoming date, MissPinkEyes. Hopefully this guy will have a lot more class. Thank you for sharing! Yes nothing wrong on having sex on a first date, it's just the way this guy acted that is not ok. I felt he just wanted to convince me to do what he wanted and was clearly overstepping my boundaries by insisting and pushing. This other guy I already had a first date with him (coffee date) and liked him. He was very respectful on the date, he wanted to make sure I got home safe afterwards, and has told me he feels very attracted to me but he is going to be respectful and let things unfold naturally like it should. And he did sound genuine. So, am going to give this guy a chance and go on a second date. Edited August 7, 2020 by MissPinkEyes 1
Wiseman2 Posted August 7, 2020 Posted August 7, 2020 1 minute ago, MissPinkEyes said: This other guy I already had a first date with him (coffee date) and liked him. He was very respectful on the date, he wanted to make sure I got home safe afterwards, and has told me he feels very attracted to me but he is going to be respectful and let things unfold naturally like it should. And he did sound genuine. So, am going to give this guy a chance and go on a second date. Hmmm.. and you like that better than a guy who wants to jump in his pool and show you houses instead of dates? lol. Enjoy the new guy. Delete poolman from your phone.
Author MissPinkEyes Posted August 8, 2020 Author Posted August 8, 2020 22 hours ago, Wiseman2 said: Hmmm.. and you like that better than a guy who wants to jump in his pool and show you houses instead of dates? lol. Enjoy the new guy. Delete poolman from your phone. It was more poolBOY.
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