kendahke Posted August 4, 2020 Posted August 4, 2020 You're ending it because he wants to be exclusive? Does he drink like the guy you were dealing with in June? Or is it the extrovert you were dating in July?
Author kenziejane Posted August 5, 2020 Author Posted August 5, 2020 17 hours ago, kendahke said: You're ending it because he wants to be exclusive? Does he drink like the guy you were dealing with in June? Or is it the extrovert you were dating in July? Alcoholic I broke up with. This is the extrovert. I'm feeling I still have some healing to do if him leaving his toothbrush at my house made my anxiety skyrocket. That and that I feel I should be more certain about someone after a month, and I'm just not. That's not fair to him. Maybe I'll take a break from dating for a while and continue to focus on therapy. 1
poppyfields Posted August 5, 2020 Posted August 5, 2020 19 hours ago, kenziejane said: I appreciate the responses. I think I'll probably end up calling this off. Don't really think I'm in the right headspace for this right now and something about our chemistry is off if I'm not clamoring to see him and spend time with him after a month. Clearly, I still have some work to do. I think that's a great idea. And pick up the book I recommended earlier, it helped me a lot after the breakup of a long term RL after which I was feeling a bit commitment-phobey about getting into another RL. All the best!
Wiseman2 Posted August 5, 2020 Posted August 5, 2020 1 hour ago, kenziejane said: I'm feeling I still have some healing to do if him leaving his toothbrush at my house made my anxiety skyrocket. That and that I feel I should be more certain about someone after a month, and I'm just not. That's not fair to him. Maybe I'll take a break from dating for a while and continue to focus on therapy. Good call.
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