No Contact for the WRONG reason!!!!!

[Lishy]

Something hit me full force in the face today ....

 

I am doing no contact with a guy i had a casual fling with 9 days now (who is counting lol) he doesnt want more - he didnt reply when i told him how i felt with anything positive or negative (he must want to keep me on the back burner)

I have just realised that i am soley doing the no contact to get him to miss me and call me and i dont like how i am feeling beacuse i KNOW he isnt going to call. He is used to me making contact with him.

I know he likes me but just cant commit to more and THIS SUCKS!!!!!!!

 

the problem is i cant change my mindset

 

Damn i am gonna hurt for a while still arnt I????

 

I hate this crap why did i have to even meet him!!!!!!!!!

[NTB]

are you doing NC with your friend with the fat vagina? did she show it to somebody else??........i'm just messin with ya

 

 

if this guy isn't into you just relax soon there will be someone else who will be i know it sucks to feel so strongly about someone and have them not feel the same but figure your better off knowing this now then when you invested 9 months and your entire heart

[Lishy]

Hahhahaha at the fat vagina - Very funny lol

 

The thing is i KNOW all of the answers but i still feel like this and it's BS (I dont connect with guys on that level easily)

 

I guess i am waiting for someone to say "Hey i was in that same position and it all turned out good and now we are so happy" But that aint gonna happen either.

 

Damn this man !!!!!!

[elijahBailey]

Damn i am gonna hurt for a while still arnt I????

 

yeah, sorry.

 

Like I always said, the FWB thing usually works well for the men only.

 

But hang in there cos you'll get over it.

[Lishy]

Why is it that as soon as sex comes into the equasion us women go Nutso?

 

I hate all this crap and it has scared the life out of me as i didnt think i could have feelings for another guy. This hurts more and plays on my mind more then the split with my sons father after 14 years!

[elijahBailey]

for women sex is tied with the emotions. For men sex is .... well.... just sex

[Kengne]

So that's why you're doing NC.

 

Ok.. but still, it helps you get over him --- even if you don't want to!

And it helps him get over you --- even if you don't want him to!

 

But... he also may just turn around and realize he wants to be more than FWB. Possible? Yes. Likely? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm *whistles and looks around*.

 

Yes, it hurts but this is a lesson learned. You my friend, are not cut out for FWB, period. No pt trying to figure out why women get all emotional when sex is involved - (some of us) just DO! And you, clearly, are in that group.

 

((HuGG))

 

Take care!

 

K.

[Lishy]

Oh you are all so sweet - Thank you so much (K you are a star!)

 

Just a bit of honesty and to be honest i feel better for admitting why i am really not contacting him!

[mcaloongirl]

Aw. Remember you are worth a lot. Even if he doesn't want you to be more then just a friend for whatever reason, him, his past, you.. who ever knows these days... Anyways, you deserve to be treated with the upmost respect even when you are just FWB. But have confidience and keep your chin up... Confidient women are attractive and awesome, single or not.

 

PS: I'm absolutely in the SAME boat. I've told him he needs to hang out more then just calling me late at night. I have never proposed a relationship or dating however I do make my own rules for respect when it comes to FWB and being a "friend" is one of them. I'd rather not jump over being respected part whether its for dating someday or just friends. You are worth more for sure!!!

[Lishy]

He doesnt call me late at night - I call him lol

 

He came around the other night and we had the best night - Chatting, cuddling, laughing, BONKING hahahhaha

 

And now i dont even have the urge to contact him but I bet i will in a week Grrrrrrrrrrr