Phallacy Posted August 6, 2020 Posted August 6, 2020 30 minutes ago, basil67 said: I'm guessing you're single. I’m not married, correct.
Wiseman2 Posted August 30, 2020 Posted August 30, 2020 On 7/31/2020 at 5:01 AM, Noluck83 said: Like... i actually woke up today and i miss the girl i was speaking to in my head. If that makes ANY sense whatsoever to anyone else. It's best to meet asap before you build too much up in your head. 1
smackie9 Posted August 30, 2020 Posted August 30, 2020 (edited) Internet dating is not the issue, it's how you date. I agree with the advice you don't spend your time getting to know someone over text/phone. You like someone, exchange a few messages, get a date set up asap. Leave the getting to know someone on dates instead. If you get knocked into the friends zone again and again, it has something to do with what happens during your date, or their impression of you visually. Not just about looks, but body language, not as confident, vibe, etc. Everyone that comes on here blames internet dating, when the real issue lies with them. It's like a poor musician blaming his instrument. If dating irl is no different than OLD, they need to stop thinking OLD should be some magic bullet solution to meeting someone. Edited August 30, 2020 by smackie9
poppyfields Posted August 30, 2020 Posted August 30, 2020 (edited) I know exactly how you feel but it wasn't a man I met on a dating site but another forum. He lived in another country, so couldn't meet, but we chatted for a few months and connected, at least I did. I sensed he did too. And yeah when it ended, it felt like a break up! Weirdest thing I ever experienced! I was sad, even shed a few tears! But have no regrets about it, I learned a lot from it and treasure the memory however short lived our interaction was. Perhaps you can try viewing it from that perspective? No different from if you had a few dates, or many dates, felt a connection but then after a bit you realized they weren't the right fit. You experienced a mental connection with this woman, treasure that, it's very rare. Edited August 30, 2020 by poppyfields
Wiseman2 Posted August 30, 2020 Posted August 30, 2020 Dating 2 women gets exhausting, so you'll need to decide if you want adventurous women or homely women.
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