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"Hey do you wanna make out?"

One of my friends uses this line and even though it makes me cringe, I can see it working. 

Do you think this would work?  Pros and Cons?

 

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What's her end goal?   If she wants sex, I could see it working.  

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16 minutes ago, basil67 said:

What's her end goal?   If she wants sex, I could see it working.  

End goal?  I don't know.

I mean, I don't just want sex, I want more than that, but not exactly sure how far and do what depths I want things to go though.

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4 minutes ago, snowcones said:

I mean, I don't just want sex, I want more than that, but not exactly sure how far and do what depths I want things to go though.

Well, relations unfortunately require both parties to find an agreement and the thing is, as dudes, once we get sex out of you, we just innately become less agreeable, even if our intentions go beyond just sex.

Honestly, the quoted post is a better pick up line... "I dont want JUST sex..." is a great line, because it communicates to the guy that if he puts work in, he won't be left hanging, where as "Wanna make out?" is less final and just overall less communicative.

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If you want more than sex, I wouldn't suggest you use her pickup line.

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No.  It's crass & send the wrong message. 

If you are a woman & want to pick up a man, you don't need a line. Just say hi.  talk about something cliche - -the weather, how much Covid sucks & you miss normal, the game on the TV.  It's not that hard.  

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I can only really envision this 'pickup line' resulting in a night (or a few minutes) of sexting...

"Hey do you wanna make out?"

"Heck yeah, what else would we get up to?"

Etc, etc...

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If you were 19, had a few  in you,  and happened to be in a club....sure...great line!...works every time!!

TFY

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“Is that a pencil in your pocket or are you happy to see me”

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12 minutes ago, thefooloftheyear said:

If you were 19, had a few  in you,  and happened to be in a club....sure...great line!...works every time!!

TFY

I laughed at this. lol

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  • very low class for a woman to use
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3 hours ago, snowcones said:

"Hey do you wanna make out?

Creepy as hell

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ls she saying it humorously or for real . For me in humor, a slight maybe but she'd have to be pretty good to get away with it because really even in a humor l'd be very turned off . No woman l'd go for would be that classless.

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No, this is not a good line to use if you want a guy to take you seriously. 

Depending on your age, it might also make you seem like a teenager. 

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10 hours ago, snowcones said:

Do you think this would work?  Pros and Cons?

The only thing it "Works" for is telling the guy that she is SUPER easy.   I would never take a girl serious who used that as a pickup line. 

I remember a girl in college who used a line kind of like that... but if she was drunk in a dorm party... it was... "Do you want me to suck your  C***."   Needless to say... she got the nickname "Scope".  (Because she would look for mouthwash after) Needless to say... she never had a BF in the 3 years I knew her, but there was always guys around her. 

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10 hours ago, snowcones said:

Do you think this would work?  Pros and Cons?

If I found the person attractive and was available it would probably work for me, and statements like that have done exactly that with me in the past.

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Joke: what's the mating call of a Surrey Girl? Oh I'm so drunk!

I never had to use a pickup line....I used strong eye contact from across the room. Then they would do a double take, swig down a beer and come over to me. Then the magic begins.

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3 hours ago, smackie9 said:

Joke: what's the mating call of a Surrey Girl? Oh I'm so drunk!

I never had to use a pickup line....I used strong eye contact from across the room. Then they would do a double take, swig down a beer and come over to me. Then the magic begins.

I totally agree. Strong eye contact is all you need. If he's available and he likes what he sees, he's coming over. 

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4 minutes ago, princessaurora said:

I totally agree. Strong eye contact is all you need. If he's available and he likes what he sees, he's coming over. 

works better for good looking people

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Everything works better for good looking people.  I used to know this guy that was so incredibly attractive ( a high school friend's older brother)  that he could use the most cringeworthy lines and still win women over. One of his favorites was " i like that dress, but i'd like it even better on my bedroom floor." It was a total  "I'm going to make you laugh and then i'm gonna take you home and bang you "  routine he had going, and it worked almost every time. 😆

 

If a guy isn't attracted to a girl,  having him give  her a disgusted look when she  ask him to make out is going to be a much harder pill to swallow  than him just not returning her  gaze. 

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It only works if that particular person finds you attractive. All the chit chat, lines, in the world won't make much difference if they don't find you attractive.

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Pros:

  • you may get to makeout with that person
  • makes for an easy interaction (yes/no)

Cons

  • unromantic (will you highlight every step in the making out process and ask if they want to?)
  • suspicious (people may think you are an escort, or that you want to steal their kidney)
  • you haven't had the chance to take a whiff of their breath beforehand - after they say yes, you'll have to deal with it

 

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On 7/28/2020 at 8:35 PM, snowcones said:

I mean, I don't just want sex, I want more than that,

then that's not the line you should reach for first.  That's something you say when the two of you have established an undeniable connection on both sides.

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4 hours ago, regine_phalange said:

Pros:

  • you may get to makeout with that person
  • makes for an easy interaction (yes/no)

Cons

  • unromantic (will you highlight every step in the making out process and ask if they want to?)
  • suspicious (people may think you are an escort, or that you want to steal their kidney)
  • you haven't had the chance to take a whiff of their breath beforehand - after they say yes, you'll have to deal with it

 

lol this is excellent

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On 7/29/2020 at 8:54 PM, princessaurora said:

Everything works better for good looking people.  I used to know this guy that was so incredibly attractive ( a high school friend's older brother)  that he could use the most cringeworthy lines and still win women over. One of his favorites was " i like that dress, but i'd like it even better on my bedroom floor." It was a total  "I'm going to make you laugh and then i'm gonna take you home and bang you "  routine he had going, and it worked almost every time. 😆

True.  Another very attractive, and fortunately, charming ladies man that I know says, upon meeting a woman, "It's nice to touch you" instead of "It's nice to meet you" and it works like a charm.

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