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How do you know when you love someone?


Julie96

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Ok so this is very much a question of opinion and experience rather than a ‘right or wrong’ answer. I’m curious to see people’s opinions on how you know you’re in love, and when the right time is to say I love you! I’ve not been dating my boyfriend for long, we’ve been ‘seeing’ each other for a few months and only been official for around 3 weeks so it’s far too soon to declare the cliched phrase just yet, but already I feel like I’m beginning to fall for him and when we speak so affectionately to one and other, saying “I really like you” doesn’t seem to cut it! People say “when you know, you know” but I’m really interested to hear how other people knew, and at what stage of the relationship they announced it! 

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I knew one night when something a little embarrassing happened... he was so kind, and so sweet to me. I rememeber thinking to myself, I think I love this guy... 💕

It was still a while until we said it. And truthfully, it came out quite accidentally... He was leaving my home one night and as we said goodbye, it just slipped out and I said “Bye. Love you.” And then... he will tell you that I closed the door on him. Again, I was so embarrassed... But, next time we were together we got into bed at the end of the night and he whispered... “About those nice words you said to me the other day... I love you too.” 💕 We joked the next time he left my home that it was a do-over. 😂

So I will say, when the time is right, you will know. There is no pressure, just let it happen naturally...

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