Wiseman2 Posted July 27, 2020 Posted July 27, 2020 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Powerpuffs said: I guess his sister Convinced him to call me basically hes going to stay with the girl and I guess they are going to try to be a family quiet reply babo Now you have your answers/closure and you can rid yourself of this drama and this snake. At some level you knew he was with her (because you knew he has unfinished ongoing business) and that's why you panicked and called the police, his family and bombed his phone. Edited July 27, 2020 by Wiseman2
Author Powerpuffs Posted July 27, 2020 Author Posted July 27, 2020 I am going to move on. It's certainly so fresh that moving on would not be hard especially after what transpired. I wish them the best as I told him. Thanks for the advice everyone! Oh btw.. he said he was in Georgia this weekend and left his phone. But he probably turned it off. I dont know. He never came out and confirmed that he choose to be with her. I just put two and two together because he just stuttered the whole time.
Maldives Posted July 27, 2020 Posted July 27, 2020 Yep no mystery here good bet it involves the baby and other woman 1
Uptown182 Posted July 28, 2020 Posted July 28, 2020 3 hours ago, Powerpuffs said: I guess his sister Convinced him to call me basically hes going to stay with the girl and I guess they are going to try to be a family quiet reply babo Yes we’ll I’m glad he at least confirmed it and you can get some closure. Don’t be surprised if months down the line he pops up again. I was also involved with a man the same age as him who disappeared on me after 7 months. Pretty sure he disappeared because he decided to quarantine with his ex wife and kids, although that was never confirmed to me. After our last conversation I knew something was off and we never spoke again. About a month ago he texted me with an apology (still no explanation), I never responded.
ExpatInItaly Posted July 28, 2020 Posted July 28, 2020 He sounds incredibly immature for 47. In the end, I don't think you'll miss him much. 2
elaine567 Posted July 28, 2020 Posted July 28, 2020 14 hours ago, Powerpuffs said: 3 months into the relationship he tells me the girl he was seeing before me was pregnant. And he doesn't love her but wants to successfully co parent (according to him they dated for 3 months.. no relationship). Being that I had no doubts about how he felt for me.. I agreed to continue to see him. 2 weeks later.. all is fine. This is were you went wrong, what were you thinking? Did you think almost 4 months dating trumped 3 months dating and a baby? Did you never consider you were then in a competition and babies usually tend to take priority. Your ego assumed he would choose you, when that was unlikely. Even if he had, you were immediately plunged into a three/four way relationship. He may say he doesn't love her but she may love him and that would have no doubt been big trouble for you. You sleep walked into this.
smackie9 Posted July 28, 2020 Posted July 28, 2020 (edited) A guy that gets a girl pregnant and is out dating another women spells trouble. Another red flag is the love bombing. Any guy that does that is either unstable, controlling or is a player. Especially with over the top courtship. If it's too good to be true.....well you know the rest. On the brighter side.....you dodged a bullet. Edited July 28, 2020 by smackie9 1
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