Author guywithfeet Posted July 22, 2020 Author Posted July 22, 2020 42 minutes ago, elaine567 said: No sex. That is the problem. Their relationship has developed under the impression that he "owes" her for putting up with him when he was acting like a jerk early doors. It probably worked as long a they were having sex but with the lack of sex due to the Coronavirus, he now feels his input is too much. Hence the burn out and the frustration. It is tempered by the fact he acknowledges she does her "bit" in the relationship, but he needs sex and he isn't getting it... She seems perfectly happy with that and that is also aggravating the situation. Now she is feeling fat and insecure... which may mean the lack of physical contact and sexual attention may be getting to her too... She saw it as a dig. His rolling eyes opened hostilities and then he compounded it by bringing up money... Not far off from what's happening here, but it's more the sexual nature of the relationship. I can give you like 10 legitimate reasons why my gf and I can't actually have sex right now, but I'm more upset she doesn't seem to care about wanting me sexually. I don't feel like I owe her anymore, but I do feel some sense of gratitude I guess. She also puts up with my life threatening food allergies, and severely limits her diet even when I'm not around, which contributes to my loyalty too, even if I tell her she doesn't have to.
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