JT2020 Posted July 18, 2020 Posted July 18, 2020 Hi just want to vent my pain and anger at my husband who whilst we were separated due to coved 19 fell in love in a month with a woman 17 years younger than him. This aug would have been our 30 wedding anniversary now I find myself filing for divorce .Cant shake the feeling my whole marriage was based on a lie. Feeling totally gutted our retirement plans in tatters. please tell me you all moved on because I feel cast adrift .
Realitysux Posted July 18, 2020 Posted July 18, 2020 2 minutes ago, JT2020 said: Hi just want to vent my pain and anger at my husband who whilst we were separated due to coved 19 fell in love in a month with a woman 17 years younger than him. This aug would have been our 30 wedding anniversary now I find myself filing for divorce .Cant shake the feeling my whole marriage was based on a lie. Feeling totally gutted our retirement plans in tatters. please tell me you all moved on because I feel cast adrift . You move on, I promise!! I had a man who went to extremes to get rid of an obsession by hijacking my entire life. I feel violated to a point I am sick. I can barely move. I'm crying all the time. I can't focus. It was an obsession and now that the obsession is gone, I feel harassed and stalked. I can't go to the police! I wish to go someone would even listen to me .. but you have to believe that I n the end, you are gonna meet someone like me also struggling and we will go on 1
Realitysux Posted July 18, 2020 Posted July 18, 2020 It's hell and I have to walk away and never get the closure I need
FMW Posted July 18, 2020 Posted July 18, 2020 You absolutely can move on, it will just take time. What happened doesn't erase what you had, those experiences and feelings were real. Start making your own plans, just for yourself. You can and will be happy again if you choose to be. Again, it will just take time. I'm sorry you're going through this, just take things one day at a time and be kind to yourself. Spend time with friends and loved ones and remember everything you still have. 1
Author JT2020 Posted July 18, 2020 Author Posted July 18, 2020 Thank you it’s just so raw at the moment.
Blind-Sided Posted July 21, 2020 Posted July 21, 2020 I'm sorry for what you are going through. But, as someone who was "Blindsided" by his SO... and saw all those dreams of the future, and a happy family vanish... I can say with 100% certainty... you will come out the other side of this just fine. With that said... I can't hold any judgment on your stbXh. As they say... there is 2 sides to every story. If you want to expand, and vent... this is a great place to do that. I wish you luck and peace in moving forward.
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