Vitamin-X Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 i'v been dating her for more than 5 months now.. and she went for a break vacation 2 weeks ago and she'll come back after weeks. am 26 and she's 28, i love her very much and she said she loves me too. but am sure i love her more because she always says "i use my mind befor my hart" anyway this is my problems: 1- the last 2 months she start trying to take the lead of the relation and complaining from things that she's not happy. 2- when she traveled she start egnooring me and when i sms her she reply after 2 hours or so, and when i call her she says am calling her too much. 3- her temper changed and chouting at me when we talk over phone alot. 4- she told me yesterday by phone that we cannot go further in the relation we just need to keep it the way it is (No marriege) because of the religion problem ( am muslim and she's christian). 5-when 1st she traveled she used to sms me when ever she want to go out and same i used to do... so, we keept eachother informed of whats going on. some friends told me to wait if she loves me today 10% after 6 months she will 30% . some ppl said dump her and she'll get back to me, i realy donno what to do i want her and i need some things to change. i do alot of things to make her happy and smile but few of them mkes her happy and the rest lastes for few hours or days only. plz advice me coz i donno which charcter i need to welcome her with when she gets back. (MAD, act like nothing happend, egnor, or what...) thank you.
SuperMonk Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Bud, dunno what to tell you, but it seems like her interest level in you is below 50%. Dump her before she dumps you, she'll even thank you for it. http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove/23_doc_love.html
edbravo Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 i'v been dating her for more than 5 months now.. and she went for a break vacation 2 weeks ago and she'll come back after weeks. am 26 and she's 28, i love her very much and she said she loves me too. but am sure i love her more because she always says "i use my mind befor my hart" anyway this is my problems: 1- the last 2 months she start trying to take the lead of the relation and complaining from things that she's not happy. 2- when she traveled she start egnooring me and when i sms her she reply after 2 hours or so, and when i call her she says am calling her too much. 3- her temper changed and chouting at me when we talk over phone alot. 4- she told me yesterday by phone that we cannot go further in the relation we just need to keep it the way it is (No marriege) because of the religion problem ( am muslim and she's christian). 5-when 1st she traveled she used to sms me when ever she want to go out and same i used to do... so, we keept eachother informed of whats going on. some friends told me to wait if she loves me today 10% after 6 months she will 30% . some ppl said dump her and she'll get back to me, i realy donno what to do i want her and i need some things to change. i do alot of things to make her happy and smile but few of them mkes her happy and the rest lastes for few hours or days only. plz advice me coz i donno which charcter i need to welcome her with when she gets back. (MAD, act like nothing happend, egnor, or what...) thank you. Hey dude, do you want to know what your main problem is? You are an insecure guy! Have you ever been fishing before? Do you know how to catch a fish? Try to use the same philosophy. Don’t pull the line too much (let go a little when the fish pull) or you will eventually lose the fish, unless you got a dam tick line, ha ha ha. Trust me, gals seems to be more attractive to cool guys. So try to be one and stop speculating
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