lukecaes Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Alright, before I give my questions, which I hope some people will respond and give me advice..thank you. The Background: OK, I am a 23 year old male and I have just met an amazing girl. She is 24. We met at a bar one night, where she approached me, well, she thought I was cute but too embarrassed to approach me herself, so a friend got my attention for her. We clicked right away, same interests, made each other laugh, could talk all night/morning.... and things have been great. It started off slower where we would call each other every couple of few days, and we loved talking to each other. We have also hung out a few times, and went on 2 dates. We are bored at work, so we have also started emailing each other every day, and it really sounds like she is into me, and I know I am into her. One night last week she stated that she was not wasting her time with me. We have known each other now for only 3 weeks. BUT...I think I have a 3 week curse. Every dating experience or girlfriend I have had only lasted around 3 weeks. So this is always the turning point for the worse for me..and I dont really have an explanation on why. So this past friday, we hung out with my friends and her, and she seemed cool, nothing wrong. She layed her head on my shoulder like always, and had even emailed me earlier in the day asking for a picture of my "Cute Face". So everything seems cool right? Well, the next day I planned on going to my old college to tailgate for a football game and spend the night. She said she was gonna go too, but later in the day with some other guy friends of hers. Anyways, I call her on Saturday, she answers and says she is coming...I said ok. I called her back later to see where she was..no answer. I then called many hours after that, and there was no answer again, so I said to give me a call when she got my message so I knew what was going on? Well, it's now Monday morning, and I still haven't heard from her. I havent called her back yet, because I don't feel I should right now. I'm sorry if this sounds trivial, but it is BIG for me..because like I said...I think I am cursed! and I want to change things. Do you think she is playing games and this is a test? Maybe she could be annoyed with me? There are a billion possibilities, but how should I do this? When should I call her back if there is still no response, and how should I act on the phone? Act concerned? Please, any advice will be great!
westernxer Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Don't call her again... she's playing the field, coming with her "guy friends" (who probably like her, too). I've had plenty of three-week curses myself, but it's better to end it sooner than suffer for it later.
crazy_grl Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Don't call her. You're not going to do yourself any good by calling. You left her a message, and she knows your number. If she wants to talk to you, she will. I realize that you want to know what happened and if you did something wrong, but calling her to ask for that answer is only going to make you look pathetic, and you the chances of you NOT getting a useful or even truthful answer are pretty high. Don't waste your time calling her.
Author lukecaes Posted October 10, 2005 Author Posted October 10, 2005 Thanks for the info. In the past, I would just blow her off, so I guess just do it again. I thought I would get some advice first this time.
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