She pushed me away

[Lovestruck8992]

She pushed me away, and I stuck by for a while. Told her I wasn’t going anywhere because I cared so much for her..

she made me a last option, last priority. Hung out with her friends that I’ve been introduced too, stopped messaging or calling, showed no interest and simply said “I don’t know what I want, I’m confused. I like you but I don’t know what I’m doing”

you pushed me away again and this time I walked away.. in so much pain because I hate giving up... I didn’t want to give up but you made me feel like I had no other choice. I tried one last time to voice my thoughts on what I wanted and even though you have commitment issues I would never hurt you. But you made it clear that you were scared you’d change your mind down the road.

its been 3-4 weeks now and haven’t heard a single word from you, stopped seeing you creep my stories on Snapchat, and now I feel like I’m the one who made a mistake by walking away  

I miss you.... and it hurts knowing that I’m just a memory to you... it hurts knowing I’m stuck in limbo when I have it my all and got nothing in return

[scooby-philly]

People give their time, their energy, their passion, their money, their focus to what and WHO matters to them. And love is lust/attraction that stays and blossoms only through BOTH PARTIES choosing the other person day after day after day after day after day after day after day, etc. @Lovestruck8992  I'm sorry for your pain. But self worth is an important lesson to learn (and self-respect) - especially for good men. (NOTE - that isn't the same thing as the psychologically/emotionally messed up "nice guys"). While we could use more context about you, her, and the relationship - if someone chooses other things, other people over you - then that's the clearest signal they can give. you. And her not being able to tell you honestly means either she's not in touch with her feelings or she's not mature enough and secure enough to just tell you the plain old truth.  At 3-4 weeks if she hasn't contacted you - move on. (Though it was probably time to do that a while ago). It will suck for a time, but remember, often times relationships fail when one party is emotionally/psychologically immature, messed up, or not mature enough to make decisions that are coherent and logical. And in those cases, their choices, their decisions are not a reflection on you, your worth, or your value. It's a reflection of their own issues, insecurities, etc. Hang in there - it does get better.