RenegadeDM Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Hello everyone, this is actually really odd for me to do, but you know, lately I have just been taking chances with alot of things, So I will post here about an issue I have, and hopefully get some good advice from people who have maybe been in a situation like this. I am 20 years old, but dont let that fool you, I have been told time and time again that my maturity and thought processes are beyond my years on this earth. I know what romance is, I know what love might entail...Thats right Might... Unfortunately Ive never really had a girlfriend let alone someone I can physically touch, all of my relations have been long distance. Well I was looking around on something called MySpace, which is a little thing my generation enjoys using as a networking place, to meet friends, go on dates, meet potential job oppertunities, etc. The thing is I was bored one day and entered some peoples names from high school in it, and low and behold I found this girl, this one girl I had a huge crush on in highschool. She was absolutly amazing, funny, smart, gorgeous, warm hearted and kind, amazing. Unfortunately back in high school I Was afraid to tell her these things, afraid to even mention that she was someone I could see myself with and wanted to date. We werent neccisarily friends, more like aquaintances, but managed to talk about real issues from time to time, believe it or not this girl who I thought was beyond perfection, had such a low self esteem about herself. It was mind boggling. WELL I had to do it I had to send her a message, so i wrote one... "Oh my god... This really cant be you... No freaking way. Michelle, The girl I had the biggest crush for all throughout highschool and middle school and never had the balls to tell her. The one person i wanted so bad to take to a school dance. Oh my gosh, youve deffinatly grown up... Well so did I but wow. I havent talked to you or seen you since sophmore year of highschool when i was kicked out of Canyon. How have you been? How is school, life, work, friends, everything? I used to talk to you here and there at school, youd always tell me bout having a low self esteem, but ya know, I never bought it, you were always such a talented, beautiful, articulate, smart, person and well, by the looks of all the fun your having in those pictures... seems like you got over that Anyways, Wow, I really dont know what to say, this is beyond amazing to actually even fathom getting in touch with someone that i liked so long ago. Ya know, feel free to send me a message back, if you dont then its cool, hell I dont even know if you remember me anyway. Take care of yourself and I wish you the absolute best in life. Haha, here ive always wanted to do something like this for ya but never thought I could do it in hs. Your secred Admirer Drew" Can you guys help me with this one? Should I write her again, should I have even wrote her, is there anything I can do that might help me with this crush, anything I can say that would maybe get the ball rolling along? Ive changed so much since then, ive become more out there, more open, not so shy, ive even aged well, i look alot better then i did in highschool and even get more compliments now. Please help me out!
Its Not A Tumaaa Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 You've already made the first move, now just wait to see if she replies, and take it from there. Don't be persistant with it, if she's really interested in you, she'll reply. You didn't do wrong to let her know, it's not like you're in high school anymore or anything, better to do things now then to regret not doing them later. Believe it or not, I got my girlfriend the same way. There used to be this girl that worked up the street from me, and we always used to flirt when I'd go in to buy coffee. Well, her friend told me she liked me but I never took much into that, because I've a history of girls screwing me over. Anyhow, she stopped working there and I stopped going in. A year went by and this girl started talking to me from Myspace who was really cool. We talked a lot, shared the same interests in movies, so things seemed cool. I come to find out, she is the same girl that worked down the street from me a year prior. Well to make a long story short we ended up together and I haven't been happier. Who knows, this will probably work out for you, it worked out for me. Good luck.
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