Lotsgoingon Posted June 27, 2020 Posted June 27, 2020 You don't have to be "objective" you just have to be real and mature. And if you're saying your family is so negative about people you date then that's a real problem. Dude, of course you love your family but loving our families does not require we ignore their dysfunctions. Your family's sniping at your exes is seriously dysfunctional and destructive. And effective--they've so gotten into your head that you are afraid of introducing someone to them. The effect of this dysfunctional is already front and center to see. A woman with real confidence won't put up with you acting weird every time you go visit your family. She won't put up with weird body language when she visits them.
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