chad Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 im in my 3rd week of NC. (after a 5 year relationship) (she said she was confused!) anyway... i initiated NC after finding out she is seeing someone else now. most days, i feel okay, random thoughts about her, other days are real bad days, the bad days are getting fewer and far between, but when they come they are nasty - even to the case of last night i must of had 5 minutes sleep all night, all i could do was think of her. today im feeling a little better. just a kinda note to peeps initiating NC, there will be really rough days ahead for you, fight them, dont give in. have pride, and remind yourself, that somewhere, someone else truly deserves your love and not your ex. carry on with NC, it does truly work.
jc Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 I did NC for 2 weeks, AND 2 WEEKS IS A LONG TIME when you have to fight with yourself not to pick up the phone and just call.... and then he contacted me (and of course I answered because I have no willpower) and I'm back into the same cycle of hoping things will work out and knowing that they won't. So here I go NC again...Wish me luck and strength in keeping it.
legrtova Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Good luck guys, you are doing great! First week of NC for me. It's been a rollercoaster, but like you said, it gets better. I am working on denying my self from picking up if he calls...I remind my self everyday. He is supposed to call on his B-day...I think I will just shut the phone off. Keep up the great work! L. P.S. Day to day life fits perfectly:laugh:
brooke7777 Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 Ups and downs are my specialty. I still have my down days, but at least I can look back and see that there aren't as many as there were during the first two weeks. Each day, I wake up and tell myself...you've made it this far, let's go for another day. It's working so far. Stay strong everyone!
legrtova Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 Each day, I wake up and tell myself...you've made it this far, let's go for another day. It's working so far. Stay strong everyone! I couldn't agree more....just one more day without calling...
darkknight Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 Chad you are my hero. 3 weeks NC is a dream of mine. Given time I will achieve this as well
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