ShySweetie Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Ok, i really want to get back together with my ex, but i hurt him terribly when i broke up with him a year ago. I only broke up with him because i was scarred of what i was feeling because i was only 18 and he was 17. i never thought that two "kids" could be as in love as we were. that scarred me, so i broke up with him. i didn't talk to him for a long time because i knew i messed up, but i talked to him about getting back together around 6months ago. he said we shoudl try being friends and see where that goes, but then i found out that after we talked about getting back together he went, got drunk, and had sex with a very "outgoing"(you could say) girl. i got mad because he wouldn't tell me who it was and i had to find out from someone else that doesn't even know him. he said that it was true and i again quit talking to him. i realized though that i still, through everything, still love him, and i think he still loves me.(He drives by my house everyday, even when he knows i 'm not home. BTW its out of his way to drive by) i have started talking to him again, or should i just try and forget that he could be "the one" and try to move on?
Juliet Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 That was your only reason for leaving him? It sounds like an excuse. Did he believe that and try to talk you out of it or did he accept it and move on? If he accepted it easily then I am sure he agreed with your decision and probably wanted to play the field . He sounds like he is not ready for any commitments at this time.
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