Sassydiva Posted June 12, 2020 Posted June 12, 2020 I am not trying to insensitive at all, but my friend is seriously going to hit rock bottom if he doesn’t get his Sh** together! We have plans tomorrow. We have been planning this for the past 3 days. Today, I’m trying to reach him. Finally hours later he texts me. He has been literally sleeping ALL DAY. He is unemployed so I get maybe he doesn’t see a reason to get up early..what I’m annoyed at is if I have to sit around and wait for him to finally get up tomorrow and then I wasted my day. I am going to give him the benefit of the doubt, and hope he is mindful enough to know we have plans tomorrow early afternoon so he won’t just disregard my time. It’s just when he gets this way, it’s highly likely he might follow the pattern for the entire weekend and not say anything.
healing light Posted June 12, 2020 Posted June 12, 2020 You are mad he slept in late today but your plans aren't even until tomorrow? If I felt someone breathing down my neck like this, it would give me anxiety. You're angry about something that hasn't happened yet. Just set an established time for the plans so you aren't feeling antsy about his sleeping habits and he can plan his day accordingly, as well.
Author Sassydiva Posted June 12, 2020 Author Posted June 12, 2020 I know..I’m pessimistic...we do have a certain time..I’m not pressuring him about today, that’s why I am venting here
ShyViolet Posted June 13, 2020 Posted June 13, 2020 I don't really understand. Why are you assuming that he is going to flake out on your plans for tomorrow? Has he had a pattern of doing that in the past? What does the fact that he slept late today have to do with it?
Recommended Posts