Emilie Jolie Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 2 minutes ago, Alexa 95 said: Yh he should respect her anyway. It works both ways, right? I personally wouldn't ask a guy to make a 2-hour trip in the evening because I may potentially fancy a 'cuddle' that night. I do it when I am 'ready', even if I reserve the right to change my mind at all times, but I'm not just acting on my fancy. It's ok to respect the guy's time also. 1
Alexa 95 Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 11 minutes ago, Emilie Jolie said: It works both ways, right? I personally wouldn't ask a guy to make a 2-hour trip in the evening because I may potentially fancy a 'cuddle' that night. I do it when I am 'ready', even if I reserve the right to change my mind at all times, but I'm not just acting on my fancy. It's ok to respect the guy's time also. It does yeah. He has his free will to decide to go to her or decide against it.
snowboy91 Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 15 hours ago, contel3 said: I know its off topic but this made me cringe so bad! I would hope he respects what she wants even if he doesnt like her that much!!! 5 hours ago, Alexa 95 said: Yh he should respect her anyway. Totally agree - I minced my words! What I should have said is if he's really into OP then he will respect in the sense that he will be happy to wait a couple more dates. My point was that he should respect OP's choices, but don't be surprised if he want sex on the night. 2
Alexa 95 Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 5 minutes ago, snowboy91 said: Totally agree - I minced my words! What I should have said is if he's really into OP then he will respect in the sense that he will be happy to wait a couple more dates. My point was that he should respect OP's choices, but don't be surprised if he want sex on the night. 2bh. Her inviting him round and asking him to stay but not sure about going all the way. He may not take that the best. But its a good test to see how he is a man and a person. 1
Juha Posted June 12, 2020 Posted June 12, 2020 4 hours ago, Alexa 95 said: 2bh. Her inviting him round and asking him to stay but not sure about going all the way. He may not take that the best. But its a good test to see how he is a man and a person. Test or games? You are an adult act like one, games are for kids. 1
CaliforniaGirl Posted June 13, 2020 Posted June 13, 2020 Don't ask him over just to cuddle. He'll feel duped. He'll be thinking you're just being coy but that there will be sex. Then you say...oh no, we're just cuddling, remember? And he'll think: what a game-player. 1
Author lovesfool Posted June 15, 2020 Author Posted June 15, 2020 I've just asked him over for dinner but did not mention staying over. I'll let him draw his own conclusions! He seems like the indecisive type so it is possible he wouldn't make a decision to stay unless I asked. We shall see how it plays out! 1
Ruby Slippers Posted June 16, 2020 Posted June 16, 2020 I agree don't invite him to spend the night unless you're ready for sex. The typical guy would feel snubbed by you having him over just to cuddle. I know, I made this mistake once. It was so awkward.
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