Zona Posted June 3, 2020 Posted June 3, 2020 It's a no-brainer. Run as fast as Usain Bolt away from this relationship and don't look back. Just be thankful that you found out about her character (or lack thereof) before you married her. She is not even taking responsibility and showing any remorse, but just giving fake excuses and gaslighting. 3
notbroken Posted June 3, 2020 Posted June 3, 2020 You are going to second guess yourself and her forever as a result of this. Save yourself a lot of sleepless nights and drop her. Completely. She is not trustworthy. She proved it beyond a shadow of a doubt. 2
Redhead14 Posted June 3, 2020 Posted June 3, 2020 Let's change the narrative a little: Your brother comes to you and tells you all this about his girlfriend . . . what do you tell him????
Author justwanttorun2020 Posted June 3, 2020 Author Posted June 3, 2020 (edited) 19 minutes ago, Redhead14 said: Let's change the narrative a little: Your brother comes to you and tells you all this about his girlfriend . . . what do you tell him???? Good point...Leave her Edited June 3, 2020 by justwanttorun2020 1
Miss Spider Posted June 3, 2020 Posted June 3, 2020 20 hours ago, justwanttorun2020 said: Was I a fool to even get back with her? Should I just walk away? I’m confused at which way to go with this. Thank you Sorry...but yea. If she can do it once, she can do it again. You are option #2 to her. You are playing yourself. 1
kendahke Posted June 3, 2020 Posted June 3, 2020 (edited) You taking her back was her being successful in lulling you into a stupor with sex--but you can be sure that she's going to figure out a way to stay in contact with him and is going to find a way to make sure you don't find out. That isn't love, at least not on her end. If she actually loved you, she wouldn't have 1. been on the phone with a guy like that and 2. wouldn't have hidden it from you. A mistake is putting salt in the cake batter instead of sugar. What she did required her to consider you and determine you could stand being discounted/discarded in the moment. Like I said earlier, if you hadn't been updating her phone (then snooping on it---and yeah--what made you go through her phone? That's not an action of someone who is secure in their relationship, so she's been doing something that made you think she was being sketchy and that it was a good idea to snoop), you'd be in the dark to this day about it. Edited June 3, 2020 by kendahke 2
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