RodCub18 Posted June 1, 2020 Posted June 1, 2020 I’m a 18M and I was wondering if older women are interested in men of my age. I’ve always thought of being with an older woman, but haven’t acted on it. This is mostly the case as I think older women would see me as to young. I’ve been to clubs with older women( late 20s, 30s and maybe early 40s),but have always been outshined by men who are older. I was wondering if my suspicions are right and if not what advice y’all would give me.
DKT3 Posted June 2, 2020 Posted June 2, 2020 In general, guys your age have nothing to offer a 30 or 40 year old woman. She might find it flattering that you are attracted to her, may even have sex with you. However, the maturity gap is often too wide to sustain any type of relationship. 3
mrs rubble Posted June 2, 2020 Posted June 2, 2020 I had an 18yo hit on me in my mid 30's, I couldn't go there, my son was only 2 years younger.....I couldn't see myself with someone that close to my sons age!! 2
Ellener Posted June 2, 2020 Posted June 2, 2020 I'm shocked late 20s is an older woman! When did I get so old... I think @DKT3 is spot on. But good luck!
d0nnivain Posted June 2, 2020 Posted June 2, 2020 Generalizations don't work. Some women (cougars) will find young guys attractive. My only advice: Be yourself, be confident & whatever you do, if she's over the age of 24 don't you dare call her an older woman. 2
snowcones Posted June 3, 2020 Posted June 3, 2020 I'm an older single woman who gets hit on sometimes by younger men. My question for them always is "Why would you want to be with an older woman?". Their answers tell me what they are looking for. (no, I will not tell you which answers mean what) The good news for you is that I don't think all older women think so hard about their answers younger men give like I do.
simpycurious Posted June 3, 2020 Posted June 3, 2020 5 minutes ago, snowcones said: I'm an older single woman who gets hit on sometimes by younger men. My question for them always is "Why would you want to be with an older woman?". Their answers tell me what they are looking for. (no, I will not tell you which answers mean what) The good news for you is that I don't think all older women think so hard about their answers younger men give like I do. Do not discard the ALLURE that older women possess and how much POWER they have over men of any age. Mature, confident, no game playing, know what they want and how to get it, self-assured, seductive..............I could go on 4
ShyViolet Posted June 5, 2020 Posted June 5, 2020 I'm in my 30's and I would never be interested in an 18 year old, not a chance. An 18 year old kid has nothing to offer me, we have nothing in common. You can't generalize though. Older women who would be with an 18 year old do exist.
IndigoNight Posted June 10, 2020 Posted June 10, 2020 (edited) Ever heard the term "boy toy"? That's what older women who would be interested in someone substantially younger are looking for. As for me personally, not a chance. I didn't find 18 year old's attractive when I was one. Not to mention is never have sex with someone younger than my children. Just....NO! Edited June 10, 2020 by IndigoNight 1
CaliforniaGirl Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 14 hours ago, IndigoNight said: Ever heard the term "boy toy"? That's what older women who would be interested in someone substantially younger are looking for. As for me personally, not a chance. I didn't find 18 year old's attractive when I was one. Not to mention is never have sex with someone younger than my children. Just....NO! If I were single I might be down for a boy toy but no 18. Maybe late 20s. Not a just turned legal adult. I’m in my 50s...but even in my 40s I wouldn’t have wanted an 18-year-old, though the interest (which definitely happened) was an ego stroke for me. 1
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