Ariii__ Posted May 31, 2020 Posted May 31, 2020 Okay so a guy that I met through Facebook, asked me to see him yesterday. Before that, earlier that day, he had shared a picture of mines captioning it as “mines” to his page. I did a live video and he commented with hearts. Before he did those things I was making post about how single I was. Mentioning how I want boyfriend etc and I suppose that’s when he saw how pretty I was and started sharing my pictures and leaving comments under my videos. He picked me up later that day. He’s 23 I’m 18. We didn’t do much. He played the music he makes in his car. I listened. The thing is I did some Facebook stalking after hanging with him. I saw on Facebook, a post he made a few days ago, that pretty much let me know he was in a relationship just days ago but apparently the girl cheated and after that he had recently made another girl his Facebook profile photo and was telling her how she has his best interest at heart. He ended up updating the photo and changing it before talking to me though because that picture wasn’t his profile picture anymore. I knew that from scrolling through his page. He also mentions a lot about being single, lonely and not wanting to sleep alone. His phone also seemed to not stop blowing up while I was with him but on the other hand he let me wear his hoodie. He also posted us together on Facebook.
d0nnivain Posted May 31, 2020 Posted May 31, 2020 You are young. He's probably too old for you. The 5 year age difference isn't the problem but the life stage is huge: you are what, in HS? He's old enough to have graduated from college. If you are in the US, he can legally drink but you can't. That alone will drive you apart at some point. For now, at most it's a beginning. It's certainly not a relationship. There is some evidence that he goes through women like a hot knife through butter. He started interacting with you on some level while he was still with this other woman. He was only days or maybe hours out of a relationship when he took you on a lame outing -- sitting in his car listening to music is NOT a date ! Him letting you wear his hoodie doesn't mean anything. He could just be chivalrous; it wasn't a declaration of undying love so power down on that one. Be very careful. I see you falling down a rabbit hole very quickly and getting hurt 1
smackie9 Posted May 31, 2020 Posted May 31, 2020 If it doesn't feel right then it's not....sounds like a player to me. 3
Miss Spider Posted May 31, 2020 Posted May 31, 2020 (edited) My thoughts are if he posts 'mines' (as in excavations) on Facebook, he sounds pretty rad. f he uses the possessive contraction 'mine's' particularly without the clitic, I'm kind of more 'meh'. Anyway, on a serious note, it sounds like you two are just in the process of getting to know each other. Enjoy the moments of getting to know him and his character. He may be a bit old for you, but not necessarily. The one thing that strikes me the most is that he JUST got out of relationship. He also said she cheated on him. Just be wary about that. If he likes you he will want to go on actual dates and do fun things together, so just wait for him to make that move. They say when it's right, you just know! You won't have doubts. Good luck and I hope it works out for you! Edited May 31, 2020 by Cookiesandough 1
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