web_of_lies23 Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 hey guys, I'm new to this and I'm totally confused to what is actually happening with me and this guy. 2 fridays ago, we slept together, he had a g/f who he broke up with the next day. Then at work he kept comign to visit me and texting my mob (we work int he same place). Anyway my mate told me he was a player (vaguly I know what this means) and I felt hurt by that coz I do realy like him. On friday there we went out a big group of us and he was being quite distant from me. I told my mate I felt kinda used by him, she told him this and he took me outside and had a word. he said 'I really like you but I've just gotten outta a serious realtionship and don't want another one'. He admitted he was a player but he had respect for me. Then that night we went back to mine and had sex. Am I seeing him or what I'm realy confused? I dunno if I should be expecting it again or if he wants it coz I do like him and obv I would. Oh I'm relaly confused by this whole thing lol. CAN someone tell me what seeing someone actualyl is? Thanks for anyone who replies sophie xxx
slubberdegullion Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 He was with a girlfriend but you slept with him anyway. He admitted to being a player, then you took back to your place and fooled around. Call me crazy (it's been done before) but it just looks like you were using each other. Now, that's not necessarily bad, but he's made it pretty clear that he doesn't want much more than a bonk now and then. If you want more, I think you'll be barking up the wrong tree.
legrtova Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 'I really like you but I've just gotten outta a serious realtionship and don't want another one'. xxx He sais he wants a booty call, not a relationship. I say you are seeing him for sex, it is up to you if you want the same. For him it would probably be a rebound relationship and he might be using you (not even knowing he is)
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