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Is he pushing my boundaries already, even before the first date?


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49 minutes ago, Cookiesandough said:

A lot of places here are easing up on the restrictions in my state. . So yes, much more lax with social distancing. I have never gone to a house on a first date (not that opposed to it, just never has been on the table) but I have got into a car to be driven to another venue on 1st dates before. I guess I just don't fear people to the extent some people do. After I've met the person and feel them out, it's like getting in uber to me. Same with coronavirus...I don't really fear it as much at this point . Everyone's comfort level is different and that is ok. It's all about having and enforcing your own boundaries 

I guess you guys are further downline with lockdown easing. I'm a man and I just don't feel ready to get in a car with a girl/date at mo, due to corona. Weirdly I have been less scared of the virus than many, but I guess the last 2 months of conditioning by popular opinion, the government and media has affected me more than I know, and it seems I am now MORE cautious than many on here. And I'm not going on dates yet, because I just wouldn't even consider a kiss! Now that is totally against my previous character :(

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