Ekaj Posted May 28, 2020 Posted May 28, 2020 It’s been 5 weeks now since I’ve been dumped. We were together 7 years. A girl has asked to just meet up the park with me tomorrow. My ex absolutely hates this girl (jealousy reasons and I’ve known her for a while) and to be honest I just need a bit of company. Should I be doing this? I feel like I’m cheating even though I’m not in a relationship..
FMW Posted May 28, 2020 Posted May 28, 2020 If you were the one who was dumped, you have no reason to be feeling bad about spending time with someone new. You are not cheating - you can't cheat in a relationship that no longer exists. Your ex ended it, so you are free to move on. However, it is normal that you feel that way after 7 years together. It will just take time to get used to your new status (single). Just be sure that any new woman you spend time with understands where you're at in the process so their expectations are kept in line.
Fox Sake Posted May 28, 2020 Posted May 28, 2020 Get your ass to the park!!!! FMW is right , it’s normal to feel like that but at the same time ... you’re free now. So spread those wings a little and enjoy all the funny coincidences that life has to offer- cos it sounds to me like this is just what you need right now
smackie9 Posted May 29, 2020 Posted May 29, 2020 You ex shouldn't even know what you are doing with your life or take up any of your head space...it's over, block/delete/move on.
schlumpy Posted May 29, 2020 Posted May 29, 2020 If there is a pattern in your former relationship of dump then kiss and make up, then you could very well be declaring and end to it by dating. No going back. My vote is to meet the girl in the park and move right along.
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