Blind-Sided Posted June 9, 2020 Posted June 9, 2020 21 hours ago, max3732 said: Removing a tattoo is asking someone to change a mark on their body that they intentionally put there. If I'm not comfortable with it but like her otherwise you don't think it's worth seeing if she'd be willing to change it? This is part of your issue right now... You see it as a innocent request... but to the other person... you are asking them to go through a painful process, and change something that they wanted just to have a chance with you. Basically it's not an innocent request... it's a direct insult to most people I know with ink. OK... I get that it's a problem... and for me... the typical "Tramp Stamp", rose on the boob, or the unicorn on the ankle is a HUGE turn off. (along with anything on the face or neck) Those are tattoos for people who don't know what to do, and just want to be able to say they have one. But they are out in the open, and can't be covered easy. Obviously... it's up to you... but do NOT ask the person if they are willing to have a tattoo removed. If it's truly something you can't get over... then just make that as part of your profile.
Miss Spider Posted June 9, 2020 Posted June 9, 2020 (edited) I think it’s pretty normal if you know you want kids/a family to start feeling a little desperate around 40. Think you should date explicitly with that goal in mind and not beat around the bush if that’s important to you . Less likely to have birth defects and you see your kids get older... being an older parent is hard, speaking as a child who has one Edited June 9, 2020 by Cookiesandough
Author max3732 Posted June 9, 2020 Author Posted June 9, 2020 1 hour ago, Cookiesandough said: I think it’s pretty normal if you know you want kids/a family to start feeling a little desperate around 40. Think you should date explicitly with that goal in mind and not beat around the bush if that’s important to you . Less likely to have birth defects and you see your kids get older... being an older parent is hard, speaking as a child who has one On my profile I put that I want children. I know women are different from men in how long they can have children. What I don't know is what age women I should date. What should my cutoff age be?
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