Miss Spider Posted May 28, 2020 Posted May 28, 2020 Yep sis... He doesn’t sound like he needs a gf as much as he needs to work on himself. We can’t make people change. You’ve got too much going and no sissies you’re still a young in ... I’m glad you realized sooner rather than later that you’re not a match. Im sorry you have to do this though. . It’s not easy. Maybe that’s part of why you dragged it out
Author Oceanwaves Posted May 28, 2020 Author Posted May 28, 2020 Yes.. Here are the reasons why.I dragged it out or had doubts to end it: 1) i often imagined a "what if". What if I run into him in 5y and he's become a decent, organized MAN? And then I might regret it.. And think I should have tried harder.. But then, how do I even know that's gonna happen? I may as well run into.him.in 5 y and he's still the same. And I can't wait Here for something that might not even happen 2) Hes loyal and not moody with how he feels about me. Before him I met so many guys that for no reason would just stop talking, or be moody with me. So I consider loyalty hard to find. And a few other things like the way he looks at me for example. But yeah, these things aren't enough! The negatives prevail. 1
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