Zona Posted May 22, 2020 Posted May 22, 2020 The thing is, if I ended up having some kind of powerful unexpected crush on somebody out of the blue, I would permanently remove myself from the situation. This kind of stuff happens. I remember having this irrational "crush" on a cashier at the food store I frequent. It was completely bizarre and seemed uncontrollable and involuntary. Every once in a while you will meet a person who has this effect on you. Now here's the trick to it all... it's called self control. Are you really going to blow up your marriage for an 80 year old man? If you just avoid him, feelings should subside in time. Find a different doctor. 1
healing light Posted May 22, 2020 Posted May 22, 2020 Out of curiosity, did you experience a love or crush at first sight feeling with this doctor when you first met him?
contemplatincheatin Posted June 11, 2020 Posted June 11, 2020 try getting a hobby. i find that keeps my mind off "the one that got away".
Author NonSignificantAnon Posted June 30, 2020 Author Posted June 30, 2020 (edited) On 5/22/2020 at 5:02 AM, healing light said: Out of curiosity, did you experience a love or crush at first sight feeling with this doctor when you first met him? no just very calm could tell him anything very relaxed like I have known him for ever . Edited June 30, 2020 by NonSignificantAnon
Author NonSignificantAnon Posted June 30, 2020 Author Posted June 30, 2020 On 6/10/2020 at 8:43 PM, contemplatincheatin said: try getting a hobby. i find that keeps my mind off "the one that got away". thank you
Author NonSignificantAnon Posted June 30, 2020 Author Posted June 30, 2020 On 5/22/2020 at 1:55 AM, Zona said: The thing is, if I ended up having some kind of powerful unexpected crush on somebody out of the blue, I would permanently remove myself from the situation. This kind of stuff happens. I remember having this irrational "crush" on a cashier at the food store I frequent. It was completely bizarre and seemed uncontrollable and involuntary. Every once in a while you will meet a person who has this effect on you. Now here's the trick to it all... it's called self control. Are you really going to blow up your marriage for an 80 year old man? If you just avoid him, feelings should subside in time. Find a different doctor. I don't see him a 80 year old man when I meet him first he was 57 .This didn't just happen
DKT3 Posted June 30, 2020 Posted June 30, 2020 This is a really unhealthy situation, you should visit a therapist to help you figure out why you've been obsessed with this man over two decades. 2
Wiseman2 Posted July 29, 2020 Posted July 29, 2020 Google De Clerambault Syndrome. There is an explanation, you are not alone in this. And the good news is that you can get help
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