Calmandfocused Posted May 20, 2020 Posted May 20, 2020 (edited) Op I agree with you. 100%. first things first: Hes a liar! He purposely mislead you to believe something that wasn’t true and he led you into a false sense of security. Very bad. Secondly: yes he was emotionally cheating with her ( and probably more). When you have an emotional connection to someone which is disrespectful to the relationship that you’re in then your heart is cheating even if your body is not. You did the right thing. No one wants to be second fiddle to an ex. I think the friends with ex debate is a separate matter entirely. The point is he isn’t being fair to you or putting your feelings first. You shouldn’t have to put up with that, why should you? You did the right thing. Edited May 20, 2020 by Calmandfocused
Snow_Queen Posted May 20, 2020 Posted May 20, 2020 (edited) This man is not emotionally available. You made the right choice to end things. It would have ended in even more heartbreak had you stayed. Despite his transparency, he has a strong emotional attachment to his ex (which he admits himself). I believe the frequent contacts and meet ups is a way he holds onto what’s left of that relationship. Edited May 20, 2020 by Snow_Queen Misspelling
kendahke Posted May 21, 2020 Posted May 21, 2020 (edited) 9 hours ago, poetry said: but he was 10 years older than me (over 40) and not as sexually active as me and we talked a lot and did lots of things outsite, not just sex. Maybe he just wanted to be with someone so much because he wants a family and also people around pressured him to have kids asap? All of that is negated by this: Quote he actually said he is emotionally attached to his ex and does not think it is a bad thing, Quote Also he introduced me to his parents and he said he introduced just 2 girlfriends to them so far. So, you're one in a line he's run past them... Edited May 21, 2020 by kendahke
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