June2017 Posted May 14, 2020 Posted May 14, 2020 I want some opinions on this topic. I'm writing as a spectator to gain some insight. A guy wanted to date a girl whom he was extremely smitten with and wanted to be in a relationship with her but things went wrong due to his own mistake., even though she was willing to talk it out He then moved on with another girl and start a new sexual relationship and dating the new girl but 1. He still remember his crush (even after not seeing her for 1 year) 2. he eventually regretted treating her like that. 3. When he saw her and she saw him, he wanted to greet her but she was talking to someone else, so he looks at who she was talking to. 4. Once he crossed paths with her and pretended to walk away but as she walked away , he turned around to see if it was her Why would someone do this when they have moved on to someone else?
ExpatInItaly Posted May 14, 2020 Posted May 14, 2020 You've posted about this same scenario before, haven't you? 1
Author June2017 Posted May 14, 2020 Author Posted May 14, 2020 2 minutes ago, ExpatInItaly said: You've posted about this same scenario before, haven't you? Not this ???? This is different to my previous posts I believe. Those were about my relationship
Realitysux Posted May 14, 2020 Posted May 14, 2020 (edited) How do you know he didn't forget his crush? The behavior when they crossed paths means nothing. I have ran into people I knew and looked twice at them. If they were talking to someone I would not interrupt either. You are over thinking this too much. He's in a relationship with someone else. Edited May 14, 2020 by Realitysux 1
Author June2017 Posted May 14, 2020 Author Posted May 14, 2020 13 minutes ago, Realitysux said: How do you know he didn't forget his crush? The behavior when they crossed paths means nothing. I have ran into people I knew and looked twice at them. If they were talking to someone I would not interrupt either. You are over thinking this too much. He's in a relationship with someone else. I'm not overthinking because this is about me so...
Realitysux Posted May 14, 2020 Posted May 14, 2020 (edited) 7 minutes ago, June2017 said: I'm not overthinking because this is about me so... How do you know he didn't forget you? I'm not trying to be rude at all. Do you still like the guy? The fact he is in a relationship isn't a good sign. I just meant over thinking the encounter but yea he could still have a crush. I can't tell you what his feelings are since I don't know the guy. Edited May 14, 2020 by Realitysux
stillafool Posted May 14, 2020 Posted May 14, 2020 Of course someone will remember a crush. I still remember crushes when I see them from 20 years ago. It doesn't mean I still want them. Maybe he did a double take to make sure it was really you. Have you changed much in a year?
ExpatInItaly Posted May 15, 2020 Posted May 15, 2020 (edited) 11 hours ago, June2017 said: Not this ???? This is different to my previous posts I believe. Those were about my relationship And you're not the guy in this scenario? And yes, you have posted about this before. It's in your thread history. Back then, you were saying it was your best friend's ex. Edited May 15, 2020 by ExpatInItaly 1
Author June2017 Posted May 15, 2020 Author Posted May 15, 2020 5 hours ago, ExpatInItaly said: And you're not the guy in this scenario? And yes, you have posted about this before. It's in your thread history. Back then, you were saying it was your best friend's ex. Yes so asking about him
kendahke Posted May 21, 2020 Posted May 21, 2020 (edited) On 5/14/2020 at 5:10 PM, June2017 said: I'm not overthinking because this is about me so... then why say this: Quote I'm writing as a spectator to gain some insight. Not this ???? This is different to my previous posts I believe. Those were about my relationship smh... The answer is: he's not checking for you anymore. Edited May 21, 2020 by kendahke
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