preraph Posted May 21, 2020 Posted May 21, 2020 He can't figure out why you're so mad because he wasn't emotionally invested at all. Glad you finally managed to get rid of him. 1
poppyfields Posted May 21, 2020 Posted May 21, 2020 (edited) Yeah it would be nice if folks (men and women) were more honest and forthcoming, but in my experience the reason they're not is because they don't want to burn bridges in case they change their mind. Not sure why but in recent years, I've noticed uncertainty about what one wants has reached an all time high. Maybe because of OLD where easy access to so many people get folks into the GIG (grass is greener) mind frame, and they fear committing thinking "what if there's someone "better" for me out there"? Hotter, sexier, smarter, better educated, better career -- just better. I've read a lot of reputable articles and talked to a lot people, admitted commitment phobes, that led me to this conclusion. As everyone has been saying OP, don't settle for that. Aim higher, you're worth it. Edited May 21, 2020 by poppyfields 1
poppyfields Posted May 21, 2020 Posted May 21, 2020 (edited) To add, read rkennedy's thread. Girl he dated a couple of times, became physical with (two kissing sessions) didn't know what the hell she wanted and dumped him BUT ended her dumping talk by saying "thank you for still wanting to stay in touch, you never know what the future will bring" keeping the door OPEN. People have become just so scared, it's sad but fascinating. Edited May 21, 2020 by poppyfields
Miss Spider Posted May 21, 2020 Posted May 21, 2020 (edited) Yes agreed with the posts above. Sometimes they might be looking for else out there. It’s not always that you aren’t enough for them or anything. Oftentimes, it’s just compatibility. I think this happens the most when it all looks good on paper but they don’t feel that ”spark”( is the way some people put it) or emotional component completely. But they don’t want to miss out on maybe being wrong , sex, someone to talk to, or whatever they want. It’s selfish because they don’t wanna keep up commitments of seeing regularly, texting regularly, only talking to you(losing all other options) all that stuff... Edited May 21, 2020 by Cookiesandough
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