Gold Pile Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 I've been chasing after a special lady...no wealthy routine for her...just honesty. Things were looking very good...but it went all to hell this morning. She's pretty much decided not to get involved with me. Feeling dejected, I call the Hispanic Gold Digger I was courting. She gave it up for Gold Pile. I was preoccupied with the other's rejection, my performance was dull. For a knock-out kisser, this woman was a dead fish in bed. Not very good sex for us. True to GD form, she made no fuss of poor sex, she even inquired about the 2 of us hitting warmer climates together this winter. I related my tale of frugality. She seemed very disappointed and I don't think we'll be seeing each other again. I'm not sure if it's just my spirits being low, but I really felt her disappointment. Sure she was a GD, but I didn't want her to feel so bad. Maybe I should give up the Gold Pile game. 1 great time, and now 1 bad time, maybe I should try it on a 3rd woman then decide.
JS17 Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 I'm not sure if it's just my spirits being low, but I really felt her disappointment. Sure she was a GD, but I didn't want her to feel so bad. Of course you felt bad because you're acting like a s***head.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 9, 2005 Author Posted October 9, 2005 Of course you felt bad because you're acting like a s***head. Maybe I was (?) But what now? To change or not to change.?
whichwayisup Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 Maybe I was (?) But what now? To change or not to change.? I think you know the answer to that. If you want an honest thing then you know what to do...If you want a roll in the hay with no strings then continue with what you're doing.
BigB Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 I think you know the answer to that. If you want an honest thing then you know what to do...If you want a roll in the hay with no strings then continue with what you're doing. I'd like to think that a "roll in the hay with no strings" can still be found with honesty.... *shrugs*
whichwayisup Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 I'd like to think that a "roll in the hay with no strings" can still be found with honesty.... *shrugs* Yup, I'm sure it can. He just has to stop with the tough guy act and the game plan he has. Personally, the guy is scared of getting hurt. So, treat the woman like s*** and hurt her before she hurts him. He's shown us he has feelings and can feel bad for doing what he did. I guess I don't get the BS with games! If you like someone, go for it, if you don't stay away. If you want a fling and no strings, then say just that! Promise them a good time, no committments and bingo! You'll be screaming out eachothers' names! Plain and simple! And noone gets hurt.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 9, 2005 Author Posted October 9, 2005 So, treat the woman like s*** That line causes me more distress than you'll ever know. I took much comfort in targeting gold diggers, not women in general. I still take some comfort from that, but not much.
whichwayisup Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 That line causes me more distress than you'll ever know. I took much comfort in targeting gold diggers, not women in general. I still take some comfort from that, but not much. I'm sure it does. But ya play with the bull, eventually ya get the horn. Right? Is all that worth it, going after gold diggers? Isn't it really getting tiring? Acting and being like someone that you're not? Just enjoy life, don't go looking for trouble and purposely screwing someone over (pardon the pun) because you got hurt or you don't like gold digging women. If you don't like them, stay away from them. If I was free and single, and there was a type of guy I disliked, disrespected, I wouldn't spend my time going after them. That's just insane! Be good GD.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 9, 2005 Author Posted October 9, 2005 Say you were "used" by Gold Pile. What could he do to reduce your pain? I want to say/do something for this woman, but maybe I should leave her be. She's a grown woman with a taste for wealthy men, shes not so innocent. I'm not thinking too straight now...I'll wait.
whichwayisup Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 Say you were "used" by Gold Pile. What could he do to reduce your pain? I want to say/do something for this woman, but maybe I should leave her be. She's a grown woman with a taste for wealthy men, shes not so innocent. I'm not thinking too straight now...I'll wait. Be honest with her. You owe her that much. She will respect you for that, even if she is pissed off. You didn't run from it, you came to her and opened up. OK, she's got a taste for wealthy men. She's not innocent. Big deal. That doesn't mean she's not a good person! Obviously, you realized this... You see a GD woman and assume she's just like the rest of them...Only, not all are the same. It's like men, who are looking for easy women, or women with huge breasts. Or even a man who asks out a woman because she has tons of gorgeous friends...he's eyeing the candy before he's done with her! Yeah, one hits the pocket, the other hits the pussy. See my point? Take a day, figure out what you wanna say to her. If you wanna PM me, go for it, if not, that's okay too.
alphamale Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 It's like men, who are looking for easy women, or women with huge breasts. . ha ha ha that is funny WWIU, theres a set of 38 Cs in then room next to me right now....about 10 feet away Shhh! I think she's watching TV.
whichwayisup Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 ha ha ha that is funny WWIU, theres a set of 38 Cs in then room next to me right now....about 10 feet away Shhh! I think she's watching TV. Was waiting for you to comment on this thread...Knew it was only a matter of time! Ya big dink! Remember, it all cums down to the boobs!
Author Gold Pile Posted October 9, 2005 Author Posted October 9, 2005 because you got hurt or you don't like gold digging women. If you don't like them, stay away from them. I do not have anything against GD. I just thought that a person using sex to get a wealthy mate, would have a more commercial outlook, and not be hurt. Really (recent event excluded) I haven't been hurt.
lindya Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 Say you were "used" by Gold Pile. What could he do to reduce your pain? You might have to wait for some time before you have an opportunity to atone for your recent sins. I think you should wait and observe. Sooner or later she'll become embroiled in some sort of crisis, that only you can resolve. You know the sort of thing that happens in the movies. "Bad guy" makes an unexpected gesture of altruism that turns him into an 11th hour hero. Once you have manfully stepped in and saved her day, if she starts offering any sexual favours as a reward respond with dignity. Hold up your hand in a firm but gentle "stop it now" gesture. Climb into the BMW, and give her a meaningful gaze from the driver's window. Shake your head sadly and slowly...then speed off as she watches wistfully thinking to herself "Gold Pile. He wasn't such a bad chap after all."
Author Gold Pile Posted October 9, 2005 Author Posted October 9, 2005 Climb into the BMW, and give her a meaningful gaze from the driver's window. Shake your head sadly and slowly...then speed off as she watches wistfully thinking to herself "Gold Pile. He wasn't such a bad chap after all." :laugh: I'll be submitting that to Hollywood. Need a younger Sean Connery/Clint Eastwood combination to play my part. I saw a few cows near her place (yes New England has cows) maybe I'll aim a stampede at her place, then beamer in for the rescue. How does a city boy like me panic a heard of cattle?
hooghie Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 you must be in Maine then :lmao: On the topic at hand. I don't know the entire story, but if she only liked you because she is a GD and thought you have $- she deserves what she got. You played her back just like she played you. I can't stand GD women- they make the rest of us look bad.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 9, 2005 Author Posted October 9, 2005 you must be in Maine then :lmao: On the topic at hand. I don't know the entire story, but if she only liked you because she is a GD and thought you have $- she deserves what she got. You played her back just like she played you. I can't stand GD women- they make the rest of us look bad. OK, I played a player. But she was perhaps a rookie at it, and had feelings to hurt. I take some comfort at her being a GD player. Not in Maine...the woodsmen and big-foots would eat the cattle and hurl sh*t at my BMW.
kitkat826 Posted October 9, 2005 Posted October 9, 2005 you must be in Maine then :lmao: Lol. We have cows here in Connecticut. GP - You don't happen to be here around my way do you?!?! A track record of 1 -0 isn't that impressive to me. Perhaps it's really just not all its cracked up to be. I would give it another try to get more evidence. If its not stellar, I would seriously consider just giving it all up. It *is* possible to get no strings attached sex without schemes.
RecordProducer Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Maybe I should give up the Gold Pile game. 1 great time, and now 1 bad time, maybe I should try it on a 3rd woman then decide. Hey GP, you're my favorite pile of gold in the whole world so I will give you a sisterly advice. You shouldn't develop a strategy of seduction based on lies. You will not benefit from that as you saw in this case. She was not the only one who was disappointed, but you were too. Now you don't even know whether she was hurt because you were lying to her or because you were lying in order to use her for sex. Both reasons might have hurt her very much. You feel bad about it, naturally. But you also feel bad about yourself because you assume that she was merely a gold digger and your personal qualitites meant nothing to her. So it's a lose-lose game. And although you got what you wanted - sex, you are not happy about it. So quit the game and enjoy being honest (as all other liars in the world ). Sorry for the rejection.
Author Gold Pile Posted October 10, 2005 Author Posted October 10, 2005 You don't happen to be here around my way do you?!?! Please contain your excitement kitkat. I do happen into your state now and then. Perhaps you know of some cheap but impressive places we go to? Hey GP, you're my favorite pile of gold in the whole world so I will give you a sisterly advice. You shouldn't develop a strategy of seduction based on lies. You will not benefit from that as you saw in this case. She was not the only one who was disappointed, but you were too. RecordPro, I'm sad to see the word sisterly, usually means GP is not gonna get lucky. It's my kindly nature that made me worry about her feelings, but it's a very important point you bring up...a good man like GP has been hurt this time. That is really tragic.
kitkat826 Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 Please contain your excitement kitkat. I do happen into your state now and then. Perhaps you know of some cheap but impressive places we go to? My town is known for its impressive selection of restaurants....(you were talking about restaurants right?) And when you get bored with me, there are plenty of women who I'm sure are just waiting for GP to come and sweep them off their feet. In the land of the souped-up Civic, the BMW is sure to stand out...
RecordProducer Posted October 10, 2005 Posted October 10, 2005 My town is known for its impressive selection of restaurants....(you were talking about restaurants right?) He was talking about fast-food restaurants! RecordPro, I'm sad to see the word sisterly, usually means GP is not gonna get lucky Hmmm... I am not against incest!
Author Gold Pile Posted October 11, 2005 Author Posted October 11, 2005 I am not against incest! You Europeans are so liberal. Well fast food joints do have decent prices. But I'm open to free places too. Window shop the farmers market, or a local art gallery.
Outcast Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 just thought that a person using sex to get a wealthy mate, would have a more commercial outlook, and not be hurt. Guess what, GP? EVERY HUMAN HAS A HEART. Some have been hurt and pretend to not care, others have been hurt and respond with anger, but every one of 'em has a heart. So trying to fool yourself that they don't is bogus, dude. BOOOOOOOOOGUS.
Topper Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 So one saw the game and didn't want to play the game with you. The Other was in the Game but it turned out to be a boring end game. seems like a good time for some ancient words of wisdom. One; There is nothing as over rated as bad sex. Two; There is nothing as under rated as a good bawl-movement.
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