Author samski3409 Posted October 12, 2005 Author Posted October 12, 2005 good for you man!! screw her ,you're going to be much better of without her messing with you anymore!!
Jayhawks Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 They are so mean. Why can't she just go about her business and let you go about yours. She just wants you to know she's still around. Whenever you have any contact it just starts the process all over again. They are so inconsiderate. Stay with NC until she is out of your system. IT WORKS...
Baz Posted October 12, 2005 Posted October 12, 2005 I reckon they behave this way in order to convince themselves they have value and that what they did was right. Us doing nothing and not respoding and being adult will get right on their tits and send one very loud message - "YOU *****ED UP!!!"
Jeannie Posted October 13, 2005 Posted October 13, 2005 I'm on month 4 of no contact and although breaking up with my ex was the best thing for both of us - I tend to think about him alot now that 4 months has passed and I've cooled off from being so pissed. And with the holidays coming up it's hard not to start having all those thoughts about what we were doing this time last year and on Thanksgiving and Christmas. I think too much - I start thinking "What if no one else ever comes along and I'm single for the rest of my life?" or "Maybe things weren't so bad between us". I think our minds work overtime to drive us crazy over our ex's. I wish all it took was to be able to go into my mind and unplug that connection that keeps me wondering what my ex is doing. I am trying like hell to move on. I'm exercising every day and working on losing weight and building my self esteem back up before my ex crushed it!
Author samski3409 Posted October 14, 2005 Author Posted October 14, 2005 okay, got a text from her AGAIN last night. " i can't believe how things always reminds me of you.i hope you're doing well.I LOVE YOU!! WTF? as if sending me a text is enough,she has to go put the "I LOVE YOU" in it. It really messed me up,but i didn't reply. i mean what the hell am i suppose d to say to that anyways?
JS17 Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 samski, this has been going on for so long now. Don't let her keep doing this to you. Make this your last response to her and tell her that you need her to stop contacting you. I doubt she's doing all of this to deliberately hurt you, I'm sure she has a lot of emotions going on but what she's doing to you is extremely unfair and she needs to back off, permanently. Good luck.
brittanyjean259 Posted October 14, 2005 Posted October 14, 2005 This weather makes me very sad to, and even when its sunny and preety i get kind of sad makes me miss him. its been 2 months..well we we broke up and he went for rebound i guess..and hasnt talked to me..says" i did this to my self"... it hurts soo bad some days im fine, some days im like wait this is how im supposed to be really feeling...for some reasons ijust feel werid...not complete not whole...it feels "eerry"...it hurts so bad and music can make me very sad... i feel like if he doesnt ever talk to me i might have a nervous break down...but than again we had a rocky relationship..its really hard knowing he is going to get over me by soem1 else...who is trashy...i keep having dreams... and when i wake up gosh it hurts even more...and sometimes it hits me like" wow 3 years is reallly over"...i meen i know he still loves me...even though like 2 months ago he says" im happyy now"you cant be happy with som1 else if you love some1 else...at first it you can but hopefulyy it will drizzel out... i want to feel complette but its not my fault..i can literally feel the weakness inside of me...YOU GUYS KNOW WHAT I MEEN:(? i havent talked to him though...and he could be surprised i havent beged lol maybe
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