Author mrB2006 Posted January 1, 2006 Author Posted January 1, 2006 Also Aimee, For the most part I was comfortable with her. However, there are the moments where I just froze up. For example, whenever she would lead the discussion into really intimate stuff, like marriage and sex, I wouldn't have anything to say. I was not comfortable at all with the discussion (or with myself I guess). When I look back at those discussions, I really shouldnt have frozed up. It is entirely human to have those kinds of discussions. I think my insecurity comes down to several issues. One issue is intimacy. You know, I am a novice at dating. But, maybe that is why I am intimidated by her. I guess I am intimidated by her sexuality. I mean she is physically attractive. And she was throwing little hints here and there. She touched me quite a bit. She asked all kinds of strange little questions about my preferences in a relationship. But I didn't do a thing. I was so insecure with myself that I didn't give in to being a red-blooded male. Aimee, I think that you said in a previous post that I may be too asexual. It looks like you are right. Whoa! I think that I have found out what one of my major problems is. I guess I DO need to work on that issue. I cant' believe I was such a coward. Thanks Aimee, You really have helped me out. It is all starting to come together now. OMG, I can't believe I blew it by being so damn insecure. mrB
noclobber Posted January 3, 2006 Posted January 3, 2006 However, I am a little bit intimated by her. hi mrB2006, can u please explain this sentence?? what exactly makes u feel that way?
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