Syd8 Posted April 12, 2020 Posted April 12, 2020 My girlfriend passed away 1 year ago today. I'm still not over it and continue to grieve and mourn her every day. I still feel so lost without her.
scooby-philly Posted April 12, 2020 Posted April 12, 2020 Hey @Syd8 - I'm sorry for your pain and your loss. Losing someone like that can cause an emotional black hole to develop. The trick is - through therapy, talking with friends/family, using a site like this - to dive into the pain and rediscover who you are. The scar will always be there but if you work on the pain, if you live willingly in the darkness and find your way out, it will become a memory and you can focus on the good times as remember that you can find love again. 2
FMW Posted April 14, 2020 Posted April 14, 2020 You've been through all the "firsts" now without her - birthdays, anniversaries, holidays. Gradually it will become more bearable, the pain will be less sharp as time goes on.
Author Syd8 Posted April 15, 2020 Author Posted April 15, 2020 Thank you everyone for your responses. I appreciate them.
TeddyBundy1993 Posted April 30, 2020 Posted April 30, 2020 I am sorry to hear about your. My ex girlfriend also lost her then boyfriend to suicide then I came to her life and now shes happily dating someone else and is pregnant too. I mean dont loose hope. It hurts for sure but this is life and life is not only Roses and blooming there are darker days too. Just you know future will bring something better mate. Right now I am dating a women who lost her husband 16 years ago she still remembers him but says she's really happy with me. Life goes on. And you meet someone all of a sudden and things click. Good luck
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