Springsummer Posted April 11, 2020 Posted April 11, 2020 (edited) Snoring probably is a deal breaker for me. When people do OLD. How early you should ask if that person snorts or not? you don't actually want to find that out in personal yourself, right? Edited April 11, 2020 by Springsummer
FMW Posted April 11, 2020 Posted April 11, 2020 Many people who snore apparently have no idea and will deny it if anyone tells them they do. So I don't think there's any sure way to know other than being around them when they are asleep. Hey, you may be a snorer yourself and not know 1
Happy Lemming Posted April 11, 2020 Posted April 11, 2020 When I first started dating my girlfriend, she snored quite a bit... I mentioned it to her and she had it checked out. Turns out she has a mild case of sleep apnea, so now she has a CPAP machine, problem solved. 1
preraph Posted April 11, 2020 Posted April 11, 2020 I sympathize. I cannot sleep at all with a snorer even within earshot. And yeah, they seem to always be in denial or think it should just be okay. They can't help it, but some of them could if they'd learn to not sleep on their backs. Thing is, I wasn't a snorer, but as you get older, most people turn into snorers -- and that's another reason why you always want to have a spare bedroom. I had a girlfriend who stayed with me for a month when she was young and she snored then. Decades later, her husband got his own room because of her snoring and she didn't even believe him and didn't think she snored. I assured her she did and always had. 1
chillii Posted April 12, 2020 Posted April 12, 2020 (edited) l snore , want my number . sorry couldn't resist. Nah , don't really of the top of my head have any deal breakers or lists not as such anyway. l mean l've only ever gone for serious stuff and if your serious about each other your well aware the other won't be perfect and there will be stuff you'll have to live with, but your ok with that. My gf couldn't sleep with my snoring actually and l couldn't sleep with her wriggling either back when but these days , we both sleep like babies. As my dad always said , if you expect to find perfect in life , in anything , then your gonna live a very disappointing life. Edited April 12, 2020 by chillii 1
basil67 Posted April 12, 2020 Posted April 12, 2020 (edited) @preraph is right about snoring with age - I didn't snore when I was younger and I do now. So even if you meet someone who does snore, there is no guarantee that they won't start snoring in the future. Edited April 12, 2020 by basil67
K.K. Posted April 12, 2020 Posted April 12, 2020 3 hours ago, chillii said: I snore , want my number . sorry couldn't resist 2
Blind-Sided Posted April 12, 2020 Posted April 12, 2020 OK... everyone is entitled to what thy like, and don't like... but that's a very petty thing to throw away a good partner over. As basil said... snoring come with age sometimes. I'm a snorer, and to my understanding, it can be bad at times. My exW said she got used to the sound, and anytime I would snore and I was facing her.. she would give me a nudge, and I would roll over. (This was a topic since we were together for 20 years) But I would hate to think that I could find the woman of my dreams, and have to look at me and say... "Sorry, I can't be with you because you snore."
Fletch Lives Posted April 12, 2020 Posted April 12, 2020 (edited) Lol, snoring is not a deal breaker. It can be dealt with, including having separate bedrooms, separate houses, etc. There are bigger deal beakers than snoring - much bigger Edited April 12, 2020 by Fletch Lives 2
K.K. Posted April 12, 2020 Posted April 12, 2020 12 minutes ago, Fletch Lives said: There are bigger deal beakers than snoring - much bigger Yea like if they do that thing with their mouth when they talk. You know.. where they’re talking and it sounds like they’re inhaling their own spit. “Hi baby I think we should shlllluurp go to the zoo today!” lolololol
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