Author max3732 Posted April 16, 2020 Author Posted April 16, 2020 6 hours ago, rjc149 said: You express it in person, physically, by escalating the flirtation into physical touch. There is no other good way to do this with a woman. I'm telling you man, you're going to come off as sleazy or creepy if you try to make this 'phone-ship' sexual. It's just tough right now. I'm running out of things to text some of these women without talking or seeing them in person. My conversation with a couple of them has gone nowhere and I don't know what else to text them.
Fletch Lives Posted April 17, 2020 Posted April 17, 2020 Just make phone friends for now. Worry about dating later. 1
poppyfields Posted April 17, 2020 Posted April 17, 2020 (edited) 21 hours ago, Ruby Slippers said: Since the last thing I need is a meaningless entanglement, I'd likely end communication with any guy who took the conversation in a sexual direction before even meeting. The topic of the sensual realm would likely come up with ongoing communication, but it should be subtle and sensitive or you risk turning her off completely. My sentiments exactly, and believe me when I say I am no prude! Some of you might be shocked by some of the sexual things I (and my boyfriends) are into and have done. But if any man I was on line chatting with and had not met in person said "you into doggy," I wouldn't even bother responding, it would be an immediate block. Apparently this has worked for you in escalating things sexually Mrin before meet? Those words? If so, not totally shocked, but a bit surprised. Edited April 17, 2020 by poppyfields 1
poppyfields Posted April 17, 2020 Posted April 17, 2020 (edited) To add, @Mrin my read on the text convo you posted? YAWN (sorry). Sounded like an actual conversation you had so if it worked for you great, but generally speaking and JMO but best to save those types of serious convos for after you meet. Texting early on should be fun and playful!! Light, teasing, some banter, make her laugh! To max, agree with those who said best to not try to "date" a woman via text, or email, snapchat, etc. For now during corona, have fun with it, keep options open, and wait to determine chemistry until when you're able to meet in person. JMO Edited April 17, 2020 by poppyfields 1
rjc149 Posted April 17, 2020 Posted April 17, 2020 19 hours ago, max3732 said: It's just tough right now. I'm running out of things to text some of these women without talking or seeing them in person. My conversation with a couple of them has gone nowhere and I don't know what else to text them. Then don't text them anything. You are turning these women off by over-communicating and trying to force a connection with them. Forced, pointless conversations over text meandering all day absolutely KILL female attraction. They get bored of it ASAP and it's needy AF. You're better off under-communicating. Add some mystery and suspense. Make them wonder about you. Stop trying to set up calls and Skype dates and all these try-hard measures to get these girls to like you. Just be cool. Whatever happens, you're cool. If this corona situation means you can't date for a while, cool. You'll be fine. You don't need to date right now. Trust me, girls really like it when a guy doesn't need to be with anyone. 1
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