shyguy1126 Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 i am like really in love with this girl and i never even talked to her i always tell myself to talk to her but when i see i get nervous and cant... i cant tell if she wants me to talk to her or not she knos i like her so u tell me... when i see her she looks into my eyes but only for a little while ? does it matter if she doesnt always look???
kscholze Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 tell you what. If you dont talk to her you will regret it for a long time. Rejection is easier than regret. If she does like you there is only one way to find out. its a game of numbers, just like sales. you are gonna get some no's
Jayhawks Posted October 8, 2005 Posted October 8, 2005 i am like really in love with this girl and i never even talked to her i always tell myself to talk to her but when i see i get nervous and cant... i cant tell if she wants me to talk to her or not she knows i like her so u tell me... when i see her she looks into my eyes but only for a little while ? does it matter if she doesn't always look??? Holy cow. If I was this girl and you acted this way I would run as fast as I could the other direction. How can she know if she likes you if she doesn't know you? Get a grip, man. Shyness can be a crutch if you let it and it can destroy your life. You need to take control and act. Wishing or hoping will gain you little if you don't put in the leg work. Be the man she would want and you want for yourself. Open your mouth and say HI!!
jaye Posted October 8, 2005 Posted October 8, 2005 You have to let it out dude. whatever it takes alcohol, anger, embarasment, counsler anything. Make sure you bring flowers. Say it in a postcard if you can. Somethings you betteroff not saying, i can't remember when was the last time i ever said to my ex that i loved her i dont, i can't but she knew i do it's the body language the way you carry youself and talk bahave and respond. when you go to movies try and lean your head on her shoulder make it very comfortable. Good luck
Lucinda Posted October 8, 2005 Posted October 8, 2005 I encourage you to tell her. I had a guy in school who had his eye on me and was also too shy to approuch me. As I walked past his house one day he saw me and got up the nerve to tell me. Although I thought he was one of the sweetest guys around I said no because I was already dating another guy. However, I never forgot this guy and the fact that he had the courage to come up to me all by himself and tell me how he felt. I thought "Wow, this guy is something else". If I wasn't dating someone else at the time I would have said YES for sure. Infact I felt he was more a man then the guy I was dating (because he approached me on a 1 to 1 basis and told me how he felt). Well, 15 yrs later who do I bump into but that same guy. Today we are together and happy. I always say to him "I am so glad you stopped me that day and told me how you felt". If he hadn't I know we would not be together today because I was just coming out of a bad marraige when we bumped into each other again. But I never forgot that day and what it meant to me.
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