babybear Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 Something happened the other nite which just made me realize that we don't need to go nuts and rage war against those who have not treated us right. Long story short - I fell in LOVE with this guy about 5 yrs. ago when I just started college. I thought things were great and I was so happy! Eventually I stop hearing from him, and I find out that he's gotten back with him ex...and didn't bother to tell me! Having feelings for an ex is OK, but not being a man about it and telling me, was NOT OKAY. We sorta kept in touch...maybe an email or 2 a year. Then, I finally decided he had no point in my life, and I stopped writing. In the meanwhile, I met a GREAT guy, and it's been 3 years. He and I went to a concert on Sunday. I was looking kinda ratty, but decided to shower and dress up and look good. I randomly run into my EX! First time in 4 years. I was the bigger person and walked over to say hello. We talked about 5 minutes, and then I said bye. I ended up close to the stage (had lost my bf during this time!) and was singing along, dancing etc. I don't know what it was, but I probably got hit on by 6 different guys! Anyway, I glance over - and my ex is just staring at me the whole night. Watching every guy talk to me...watching my bf and I together. I would see him peering through the crowd...not even watching the performer - and just staring. As I was leaving, I was about to brush him off - but I went over and said it was good to see him, and to take care. He was like, yea...good to see you. And I walked out with my love. I know how heartbroken I was over this guy, and how many times I wanted to call or email and give him a piece of my mind for treating me so bad. But at the end - I stopped figuring out how to hurt him - focused on ME - and all I can say is that watching him drool like that was the best revenge in the world. So...if any of you made it down this far - stop obsessing and creating complex schemes of revenge. Looking good, and doing well and being happy -that's the best of all. Babybear
jaye Posted October 7, 2005 Posted October 7, 2005 Ex is better then existing cus now they listen to you
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